Are we really match by faith?

Just because you found someone means that he is the right one for you.

Are you sure he is fit for you?
Is he a blessing in the sky?
Did you choose him because of nothing or because of everything?

and the most answerable question is are you really matched by faith?

Learn to appreciate every little thing he does for you and soon you'll answer every detail of what you've asked.

Song to Pamper: "Never Knew I needed" by Ne-Yo

How can you tell if you still love a person?

How can you really tell if you still love a very special person?

Simple things like:

- you always think of him over and over again.

- you always checked your cellphone, email, and other accounts hoping for him to respond.

- you cry at night bearing the pain he caused you.
- you can't concentrate about what you are doing.
- you still misses him.
- you always asked your common friends about where his abouts.
- and most specially you attempt to contact him but your brain always hold you back.

But, how can you tell if you don't love a person?

- you just passed her with all your might.
- you get to smile wholly.
- you ignore things that hurt you.
- you don't care about her.
- and you easily talked to her and no more scary thoughts that you might fall for her again.

Song to Pamper: "You don't want me to'' by 3rd Storee

Is it ok?

Is it ok if the girl would spend for her guy? But, when is too much?

It's ok to spend for gifts and other things as long as it is appreciated. But, when it is too much? Its is too much if you look like a dumb person. Buying all of he wants but not being appreciated. Guy's like those are not deserved to loved by a lovely girl.

*Love for the sake of love without expecting anything in return?
*Ideal.
*But, can we really expect ourselves to feel this way?
*Act?
*But feel?
*Maybe not.
*I believe in love is giving a big part of yourself. and in the process you find yourself needing some of it back.

Song to Pamper: "No scrub" by TLC

No Fight or No Love?

Do you believe that when you are committed to a person, do you always need to fight? Its normal to argue. But, it's weird if you commit yourself to a person you love so much but you prove to yourself that he/she doesn't love you because of having no fight or argue.

Some story.

Him: Does she truly love me?

Him 2: Why do you ask?

Him: Because we've been together for almost 5 months and we didn't fight at all. Even if I do something stupid she just let me. Does she love me?

Him 2: For me, I don't know. Because I totally don't know her. Maybe she loves you or maybe not. I guess.

Him: What will I do?

Him 2: Break up with her. From that you will know if she truly love you or not.

(Breaking up happens)

Him 2: What happen?

Him: She agree. She accept my decision for not continuing our relationship.

Him 2: Sorry to say this. But, she didn't really love you.

Him: I know.

If you are experiencing this kind of situation. You better think and do the same. For we didn't know that maybe he/she doesn't really love you. He/she is just playing around with you or you are just a reservation.

Song to pamper: "More" by Silk

Someone asked me...

My close friend asked me.

"As a blogger, What is the most painful thing that you ever experienced in being in love?"

First I was enormous for asking me that kind of thing. It may made me wonder but, I answered it with all honesty.

"For me the most painful thing that happened in my entire life is when I love a person with all my heart and soul and I couldn't patch things up.

But where is the pain in there?

It's when the one that I love decided to end it up and I have no other choice but to give up."

My friend was shocked and agree for what I've said.

Song to pamper: "If I knew" by Glenn Medeiros

Does Forever Really Exist?

"I Love You Forever, but you might say their is no such thing as forever. Until you met me."

A cheesy line isn't it? But, at some point of view their is a clue that I can't identify. You can love a person forever. "If" he/she is also willing to love you till' the end. Who stays with you, take every risks with you, and be with you forever. For me, as my own opinion. Just read.

"Forever really exists if the two of you is always together and in love with each other through thick and thin"

Song to Pamper: "All my life" by Kc & Jojo

Picky or Not Picky?

"Being single is not about having no choice. It's a result of making intelligent choices. Because intelligent people decide based on reason, not just in emotion"

Questions that surrounds a hideous mind of a picky person:
Afraid to let go?
Afraid to fall?
Afraid to get hurt?
Afraid of losing someone?
Are you really serious in our relationship?
Do you still love me?

But sometimes a person cannot blame himself. Yet,
"Life is too short to be a picky person. Having an affair is not a tolerate decision."

Song to Pamper: "I wanna be loved" by Eric Benet

Does a man really love a woman endlessly?

"I am no one special, just a common man with common thoughts. I've lived a common life, there are no monuments dedicated to me and my name will soon be forgotten. But, in one respect I've succeeded as gloriously as anyone who ever lived. I've loved another with all my heart and soul and for that has always been enough" -Noah, The Notebook

This actually prove that a man can really love a woman endlessly. Like in the movie "The Notebook" Noah is always there for Allie, even if she has another man and her parents doesn't want Noah for her. Noah waited and still hoping for Allie to come back. At the end of this movie they both died in a bed still hugging and caring for each other. Watching this movie can make your heart melt and can make you cry so deeply. Having this kind of experience could make you realize that love is a very different kind of feeling.

Song to pamper: "Endlessly" by B4-4