May 5, 2009

Suffocation of One Perspectively Love

Is it true that suffocation can lead to a break up? And whose fault does it required? The one who is tied on the neck or the other side that doesn't know his/her limitation?

Here is a story of one of my reader's who suggest a break up because of suffocation.

"Hi tricia! It's been a long time that you didn't update your site. But, I hope you will still put my story in your blog. Furthermore, My name is Gwyneth and I would like to seek some good advice that I can cope because of my ever bitter break up with my past boyfriend "David". David and I have been fighting for almost a month because of his attitude that always kept my head hurt. He was controlling me for these and that. Every move that I make, he always noticed it and it irritates me. I've known david for a year and a half. But, these past months, he's like my parents. Strict and always hot headed. I've noticed that everytime we're going on a date or something. He always wants that no part of my shoulder would be seen. I know its weird but what will I do? Instead of having fun outside, we end up arguing. And sometimes, me and my friends were a having a lunch at a near fast food restaurant. He suddenly showed up and pulled me at the door with a unexplainable reason. I dont know what to do at that very moment. What will I explain to my friends of having a very paranoid lover. And for that incidence, I woke up from my nightmare. I talked to him one night and I told him that I am scared to lose him but the way he act is just too much and I can't take it anymore. He cried and told me that he is just so much inlove with me and he is too afraid that I will find someone else that I would leave him. But, I had enough. I don't wanna be with him anymore. Once is enough, twice is a war. At this times, he always call me up and tell me that he still love me, he ask for a second chance and he will change. What will I do? Should I give him a second chance or not? I don't like to be controlled by someone anymore. Thanks for this opportunity. And I hope I will see this soon." -Gwyneth

Tricia:

A boy was asking his mother how to find the right girl, his mother said

"Don't think about that too much, concentrate about being the right guy first."


Hello Gwyneth! That story of yours is a challenge for every girl. It's a type of dare whether you choose your heart or your mind. Your heart, because of the feelings you have for david and your mind, for your own rights as a person. The short story up their is dedicated to david, you should read that to him. So he will realize his own mistake of having a strict attitude. For me as a girl, i will not give david a second chance. And like what you have said "Once is enough, twice is a war." But, its your choice. Just think very deeply. Should you follow your heart or your mind?

You too can share your own love story. Just send it to my e-mail address at cia16mae@yahoo.com


Song to Pamper: "Suffocate" by J.Holiday

7 comments:

muchie said...

Wahahahaha. parang alam ko tong story na to ah. Kawawa naman si gwynethT.T awwwww. WaHAHAHAHA

tricia said...

timang! kawawa talaga. haha!

Anonymous said...

wow nman.kawawa nman ung guy. dpt my chance pa xa kc mhal nia lng tlga cguro ung girl kea xa ngng gnun.ang mali lng cguro is ung pagiging violent nia at ung pagpapahiya sa girl.aun.

tricia said...

hoy! kung sino ka man. walang kwenta si david. kc at the first place pa lng. bakit xa nagkakaganun? db? khit pa sbhin na nating mahal nya lang talaga ung girl. hmpf!

Anonymous said...

ahm excuse me lng po ha. i'm just commenting on their story so why would like an adviser lyk u is favoring one's side?? u shud be fair and equal to both sides if want to be a gud adviser.. okei???

muchie said...

Hahahahaha! Lagot ka patring :> HAHAHAHA

tricia said...

bwiset yang anonymous n yan e. d ko nga kilala e. tapus inaaway pa ko.huhu! mitch oh!