Can a relationship would last forever? Does really no one will give up?
Here is a story of one of my reader's who thought that their love journey would end forever.
"Good evening! I am a one of your reader's. And I thought that I will try to mend my own story to you. I don't bother if you want to post it on your blog or not. By the way, here's my story. I have this girlfriend of mine, her name is lorie. Lorie and I are good friends till' I fall for her, court her and we've became lovers for 3 executive years. I really love her and I knew that she love me too. We always hang out, we always eat at her favorite restaurants, we watch movie at her or mine's house, every time we argue and she end's up crying. I would go to the nearest convenient store to buy her an ice cream (it's her own way of keeping the pressure relief), We always stay late at night talking on the phone, she always make me smile at the point when I'm mad, and I really really love her. I sacrifice everything just for her. It's like I'm perfectly happy just to be with her. But, their this saying that "everything is destined to end" so, their it is. it all begins that we don't talk too much, she always have an excuse when I call her or we're together. There these time that we meet only once a week. Is she trying to avoid me? And I don't have a definite reason why lorie would did this to me. And everytime we meet up, I would simply ask her why she is trying to avoid me, she doesn't say a word and we ended up arguing. On the day of my birthday, we went out. But lorie is different on that day. Just like the old lorie that I knew. She's happy, sweet, and cheerful again. I thought that this was my best birthday ever, but that day was the worst. At the car while I'm driving, she hug me tight and she said the last sweetest words that I would never hear from her again "I LOVE YOU". Finally, we are at their house. I park nearby. She get out of the car and so did I. She hug me tight again and a soft but painful words came out of her mouth. "I love you but were not destined to be together, its time for you to let me go" lorie said. Sad isn't it? and of course I asked why? she didn't answer me. She just rushly go to their house. And I was shocked. I suddenly sat on the road and think. A few words broke my heart. I just went home, and at the time when I'm in my room. I call her and she answered it. I ask why? she said "I don't know, I'm just letting you go. It's maybe I'm not happy with you anymore. I don't want to be with you anymore. I'm sorry that I hurt you but I quit on being your girlfriend" I don't know what to say. A sudden tear came out of my eyes. As we meet up in class I repeatedly ask her again and again. She simply said "it's over and done, I don't want to talk with you anymore" As days passed by, I give up. I don't want to questioned her anymore. But, after all these years? she just want to broke up with me with a undefinite reason. It hurts so much. Until now I couldn't move on. What will I do? I really love lorie. And I still want our relationship to have a second chance. Help me please. -Eddie"
Tricia:
As I read your story, I recently had a flashback of my past lover. Anyway, its very hard to understand why couple's nowadays is breaking up with unspecific reason. But for your situation, you did nothing wrong. Its lorie's choice to end your commitment with her and you don't have the right to make her change her mind. Yet, if she came back to you. It's your decision if you would still accept her or not. In these time, all you have to do is move on and don't push yourself to her anymore. It's very tiring and annoying. Find someone who is better than lorie. Don't be a emotional person anymore. Smile and face the problems that you have encountered. By the way eddie, Maybe my advice would help you and make you think that lorie is not the only girl in your own world. Thank you for sharing your own love story.
You too can share your own love story. Just send it to my e-mail address at cia16mae@yahoo.com
Song to Pamper: "I Quit" by Atozzio
Here is a story of one of my reader's who thought that their love journey would end forever.
"Good evening! I am a one of your reader's. And I thought that I will try to mend my own story to you. I don't bother if you want to post it on your blog or not. By the way, here's my story. I have this girlfriend of mine, her name is lorie. Lorie and I are good friends till' I fall for her, court her and we've became lovers for 3 executive years. I really love her and I knew that she love me too. We always hang out, we always eat at her favorite restaurants, we watch movie at her or mine's house, every time we argue and she end's up crying. I would go to the nearest convenient store to buy her an ice cream (it's her own way of keeping the pressure relief), We always stay late at night talking on the phone, she always make me smile at the point when I'm mad, and I really really love her. I sacrifice everything just for her. It's like I'm perfectly happy just to be with her. But, their this saying that "everything is destined to end" so, their it is. it all begins that we don't talk too much, she always have an excuse when I call her or we're together. There these time that we meet only once a week. Is she trying to avoid me? And I don't have a definite reason why lorie would did this to me. And everytime we meet up, I would simply ask her why she is trying to avoid me, she doesn't say a word and we ended up arguing. On the day of my birthday, we went out. But lorie is different on that day. Just like the old lorie that I knew. She's happy, sweet, and cheerful again. I thought that this was my best birthday ever, but that day was the worst. At the car while I'm driving, she hug me tight and she said the last sweetest words that I would never hear from her again "I LOVE YOU". Finally, we are at their house. I park nearby. She get out of the car and so did I. She hug me tight again and a soft but painful words came out of her mouth. "I love you but were not destined to be together, its time for you to let me go" lorie said. Sad isn't it? and of course I asked why? she didn't answer me. She just rushly go to their house. And I was shocked. I suddenly sat on the road and think. A few words broke my heart. I just went home, and at the time when I'm in my room. I call her and she answered it. I ask why? she said "I don't know, I'm just letting you go. It's maybe I'm not happy with you anymore. I don't want to be with you anymore. I'm sorry that I hurt you but I quit on being your girlfriend" I don't know what to say. A sudden tear came out of my eyes. As we meet up in class I repeatedly ask her again and again. She simply said "it's over and done, I don't want to talk with you anymore" As days passed by, I give up. I don't want to questioned her anymore. But, after all these years? she just want to broke up with me with a undefinite reason. It hurts so much. Until now I couldn't move on. What will I do? I really love lorie. And I still want our relationship to have a second chance. Help me please. -Eddie"
Tricia:
"When you learn to give up your happiness for someone,
that's the moment you learn what real love is"
As I read your story, I recently had a flashback of my past lover. Anyway, its very hard to understand why couple's nowadays is breaking up with unspecific reason. But for your situation, you did nothing wrong. Its lorie's choice to end your commitment with her and you don't have the right to make her change her mind. Yet, if she came back to you. It's your decision if you would still accept her or not. In these time, all you have to do is move on and don't push yourself to her anymore. It's very tiring and annoying. Find someone who is better than lorie. Don't be a emotional person anymore. Smile and face the problems that you have encountered. By the way eddie, Maybe my advice would help you and make you think that lorie is not the only girl in your own world. Thank you for sharing your own love story.
You too can share your own love story. Just send it to my e-mail address at cia16mae@yahoo.com
Song to Pamper: "I Quit" by Atozzio
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7 comments:
Ahoo! This scenario sounds really familiar. Someone I know broke up with her boyfriend on his bday, how harsh! So mean! That girl shouldn't be forgiven!!!
Haha, jk!
Love this post hah!
abhorring.
tsktsk. Bakit ganun? Kadalasan makikipagbreak ang isang kampo sa other kampo kapag importante ang araw na yun sa kampo na yun. Gets? Ohwell. It turn out to be a plan. But hello. The girl is mean. Ohwell. Kahit babae ako. Same with guys, dont plan kung kailan dapat ibreak ang isang relationship.
ay naku! jizzka...yeah it really sounds familiar. oh well.. that's life. unfair! hahaha!
kimi! hehhe...boring ba? d naman e. hmpf! hahha
weh mits! isa ka pa. hahaha..pero it depends on the person if she/he really want to break up with their partner planned or unplanned. hahaha!. gets?
i didn't mean boring. I said abhorring.
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