Jan 8, 2009

OPTION is not a predictable reason

Being an Option is not a definite or infinite reason to be a stubborn person.

But, why does it hurts?

Here is a story of one of my reader's.

Hello tricia, I am one of your readers and eventually I have this (I don't know if I should call it a "LOVE PROBLEM") problem. But, it totally hurt deep within me. Anyway, I am mark. Here is my story goes. There's this schoolmate of mine now at college, her name was jenny. She's kind, worthy, and jolly. Me and jenny we're friends until I fall in love with her. I started courting her, like any guy would do for the new girl in their life. And so month's passed by until I realize that jenny is still in touch with her past boyfriend "john". It's so sad and depressing. Because jenny once told me that "she is" also has a feelings with me. But why does she is in touch with that person? After all that things that john done to her. Jenny once confess to me that this "john" is just using her to make john's girlfriend jealous. So he broke up with john. Until now, I can't decide if whether I should give up or not. Because I love her so much with all my heart. But, every time that this "john" text her and need her. Jenny is always their and willing to leave me behind for that person who just used her. Help me. What will I do, Should I stop courting jenny or not? Am I just an option for john? and Why does it is not so easy to forget the past? -Mark

Tricia:

Hi mark! nice love story. even if it totally hurts deep within. right? but I think all you have to do first is to stop yourself courting jenny. Because even if you love and care for her, and enjoying your times together. You are just making a fool of yourself. A feeling of joy and laughter outside but deep within your heart you are just hurting yourself. Stop! and moved on. Find someone else who would not used you as an "option" and find someone who is HONEST with everything that she is doing time after time. Thank you mark for sharing your story. keep reading.

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