Jan 26, 2009

Bestfriend Now, Lovers Later

A bestfriend is someone who has a big attachment on you that's why it is called "BEST".

A person who can rely on in times of trouble and can only see your true personality.
But, what if? your best bud fall in love with you. Should you give your heart too?

I think there's nothing wrong about that as long as you trust each other and willing to step up to another level. A level as "lovers". It's never wrong to love a person especially if he/she knows you very well. BUT, there are still times that falling to your own bestfriend is not a good idea. Wanna know why?

Here are the options that can make you realize that falling to your best bud is wrong.

1. COMMITMENT - If your bestfriend has a commitment with another person, maybe its better to make friends with that person so you won't be the cause of their break up.

2. MISUNDERSTANDING - you always had that feeling, a feeling of misunderstanding. If he/she is also in love with me and you as a person is getting blind because of what is happening.

3. TREAT - you treat him/her as your lover. you act like there is something between you two even though there is not.

Here are the options that can make you realize that falling to your best bud is better.

1. KNOWS YOU WELL - your best bud knows you very well than anyone else.

2. TRUST - he/she trust you as his/her own life depends on you.

3. RESIST - he/she can't resist you even at times where he/she is very busy.

4. COMFORTABLE - you and your bestfriend is more comfortable with each other because you know each other very well.

5. HONESTY - you always know if whether he/she is lying to you. You always caught him in the act.

6. HAPPINESS - as a long time bestfriend, isn't it a wonderful feeling to make your status as a bestfriend step up to another level?


Song to Pamper: "Lovers and Friends" by Usher feat Lil´Jon, Ludacris, Pitbull

2 comments:

Ken said...

Aww. Buti nalang wala akong best friend. :))

Anonymous said...

While reading this, it reminds me of someone. Hmm... Who could that be? Hahah! xD
nice blog! And i really love the song, RNB! woot woot! That's what i'm talkin' about. :)) YEEE!