PamperMeLove

I love you

2011-04-08T23:38:00.000-07:00

To say the words "I Love You" you must mean and feel it. And remember to say these words to your one and only special person. Here's to say I Love You in different languages.

Afrikaans -	Ek het jou lief
Albanian -	Te dua
Arabic -	Ana behibak (to male)
Arabic -	Ana behibek (to female)
Armenian -	Yes kez sirumen
Bambara -	M'bi fe
Bangla -	Aamee tuma ke bhalo baashi
Belarusian -	Ya tabe kahayu
Bisaya -	Nahigugma ako kanimo
Bosnian -	Volim te
Bulgarian -	Obicham te
Cambodian -	Bung Srorlagn Oun (to female) Oun Srorlagn Bung (to male)
Cantonese/Chinese	Ngo oiy ney a
Catalan -	T'estimo
Cheyenne -	Ne mohotatse
Chichewa -	Ndimakukonda
Corsican -	Ti tengu caru (to male)
Creol -	Mi aime jou
Croatian -	Volim te
Czech -	Miluji te
Danish -	Jeg Elsker Dig
Dutch -	Ik hou van jou
Elmer Fudd -	I wove you
English -	I love you
Esperanto -	Mi amas vin
Estonian -	Ma armastan sind
Ethiopian -	Ewedishalehu : male/female to female Ewedihalehu: male/female to male.
Faroese -	Eg elski teg
Farsi -	Doset daram
Filipino -	Mahal kita
Finnish -	Mina rakastan sinua
French -	Je t'aime, Je t'adore
Gaelic -	Ta gra agam ort
Georgian -	Mikvarhar
German -	Ich liebe dich
Greek -	S'agapo
Gujarati -	Hu tumney prem karu chu
Hiligaynon -	Palangga ko ikaw
Hawaiian -	Aloha wau ia oi
Hebrew -	Ani ohev otah (to female)
Hebrew -	Ani ohev et otha (to male)
Hiligaynon -	Guina higugma ko ikaw
Hindi -	Hum Tumhe Pyar Karte hai
Hmong -	Kuv hlub koj
Hopi -	Nu' umi unangwa'ta
Hungarian -	Szeretlek
Icelandic -	Ég elska þig
Ilonggo -	Palangga ko ikaw
Indonesian -	Saya cinta padamu
Inuit -	Negligevapse
Irish -	Taim i' ngra leat
Italian -	Ti amo
Japanese -	Aishiteru
Kannada -	Naa ninna preetisuve
Kapampangan -	Kaluguran daka
Kikongo -	Muke zolaka nge
Kiswahili -	Nakupenda
Konkani -	Tu magel moga cho
Korean -	Sarang Heyo
Latin -	Te amo
Latvian -	Es tevi miilu
Lebanese -	Bahibak
Lingala -	Nalingi yo
Lithuanian -	Tave myliu
Macedonian	Te Sakam
Malay -	Saya cintakan mu / Aku cinta padamu
Malayalam -	Njan Ninne Premikunnu
Maltese -	Inhobbok
Mandarin Chinese -	Wo ai ni
Marathi -	Me tula prem karto
Mohawk -	Kanbhik
Moroccan -	Ana moajaba bik
Nahuatl -	Ni mits neki
Navaho -	Ayor anosh'ni
Nepali -	Ma Timilai Maya Garchhu
Norwegian -	Jeg Elsker Deg
Pandacan -	Syota na kita!!
Pangasinan -	Inaru Taka
Papiamento -	Mi ta stimabo
Persian -	Doo-set daaram
Pig Latin -	Iay ovlay ouyay
Polish -	Kocham Cie
Portuguese -	Amo-te
Romanian -	TE IUBESC
Roman Numerals -	333
Russian -	Ya tebya liubliu
Rwanda -	Ndagukunda
Scot Gaelic -	Tha gra\dh agam ort
Serbian -	Volim te
Setswana -	Ke a go rata
Sign Language -	,\,,/ (represents position of fingers when signing 'I Love You'
Sindhi -	Maa tokhe pyar kendo ahyan
Sioux -	Techihhila
Slovak -	Lu`bim ta
Slovenian -	Ljubim te
Spanish -	Te quiero / Te amo
Surinam-	Mi lobi joe
Swahili -	Ninapenda wewe
Swedish -	Jag alskar dig
Swiss-German -	Ig liebe di
Tajik	Man turo Dust Doram
Tagalog -	Mahal kita
Taiwanese -	Wa ga ei li
Tahitian -	Ua Here Vau Ia Oe
Tamil -	Naan unnai kathalikiraen
Telugu -	Nenu ninnu premistunnanu
Thai -	Chan rak khun (to male)
Thai -	Phom rak khun (to female)
Turkish -	Seni Seviyorum
Ukrainian -	Ya tebe kahayu
Urdu -	mai aap say pyaar karta hoo
Vietnamese -	Anh ye^u em (to female)
Vietnamese -	Em ye^u anh (to male)
Welsh -	'Rwy'n dy garu
Yiddish -	Ikh hob dikh
Yoruba -	Mo ni fe
Zimbabwe -	Ndinokuda

Song to Pamper: "I Love You too" by Usher

Mga emosyonal na pananalita.

2011-03-24T19:05:00.000-07:00

Eto ang mga pangyayari o mga salita na hindi mo akalaing sasabihin mo.

1. "Mahal na mahal kita, at ang sakit-sakit na."

"Ako naman ang may gusto nito diba? Pero bakit ang sakit-sakit?"

"She loved me at my worst. You had me at my best. And you chose to break my heart."

"If kaya pang ayusin pilitin. What if this is really what both of you need? Then just be strong. Magiging mahirap at masakit pero hopefully all the pain will be worth it."

Siguro kaya tayo iniiwanan ng mga mahal natin dahil may darating pang ibang mas magmamahal sa'tin - 'yung hindi tayo sasaktan at paasahin...'yung magtatama ng lahat ng mali sa buhay natin.

But you're asking for too much. Gusto mo mawala na'ko sa buhay mo.

Courtesy of the movie "One More Chance"

2. "Iiwan mo ba ko? basta wag kang gagawa ng dahilan para iwan kita"

3. Saktan mo na ko physically, wag lang emotionally.

4. "Lahat ng problema nasosolusyonan, pero bakit ito? parang hindi na."

5. "kaya ko to' pero mas kakayanin ko kung andyan ka pa rin"

6. "sanay na ko ng iniiwan mo ko, pero sana this time kung aalis ka. Please huwag ka ng bumalik"

7. "masakit makita ka pero mas masakit ang makasama ka"

8. "bakit ka makikipagbreak agad? magusap muna kau. lahat ng problema nadadaan sa pag-uusap"

Madrama, emosyonal pero totoo.

-NO SONG TO PAMPER IN TAGALOG ENTRIES-

I need my love, my valentine

2011-02-10T05:22:00.000-08:00

February 14. The day of love. The day that many of us wait to expressed our feelings to our special someone. To bring chocolates, flowers, cards and many more.

Here is a story of my reader who experienced a very special day on what we called "Valentine's day''

Hi there. I'm an occasionally reader of your blog and posts. Here's the thought in my high school days most of my classmates is an avid fan of ''valentines day'' they bought flowers, expensive chocolate's and even make a decorative cards. I don't really know why thus this day have to be very special for them. Well maybe, they have the courage to face their crushes, flings and special love. But in my own thought it's just a waste of time, effort and most specially money. Yet in this one moment in my life. I realized that valentine's day is way unique and full of expressions. At my college years. Its turning february again. All of the bookstore, malls, parks and streets is filled with decorative hearts. I just straightly walked and didn't believed on the thought of valentine. I even vandalized my chair and wrote ''v-day is another normal day'' Here comes february 14. Another ordinary day for me. But a special day for them. Before my class. There was a box of chocolate left on my chair and a card saying. ''Would you be my date this valentines day?'' I was liked annoyed by this anonymous letter hanging around the box of chocolate. Then at the end of the letter there was a time and place where we would meet up so I will know who gave it to me. I was curious about this person. So I came late. The meeting place was at our school entrance gate at 5pm. I came about 5:30pm. There was this guy who brought flowers with 3 colors in it. Red, white and pink. He gave it to me and said thank you for me to come. He grab my hand and we walked toward this cafe. He reserved a whole cake that I usually bought everyday. He even know my favorite drink in that cafe. We talked, laughed and get to know each other. After a fun date, I decide to be friend with him. We exchange numbers and as days pass. We know in ourselves that we are special in our own set of ways. Do you wanna know who this guy is? this guy was my batch mate and we usually sat on the same chair where I vandalized it. After my class and after sitting on that chair. Their time was on the afternoon and he saw what I wrote on that same chair. He asked his friend who were a classmate of mine and saw me distantly. Fate it is right? He didn't usually also believe on valentine's day. But after seeing what I wrote he thought why wouldn't give it a try and now we both believe that valentine's day exist in every day that we are together. By the way, I'm tin and my boyfriend is leo. We decide that on the next february 14. We will not celebrate the gift of love just like others. But we celebrate it everyday. Thank you.

Song to Pamper: ''My Valentine'' by Shiny ft. Albert Posis

Are we really match by faith?

2011-01-31T08:20:00.000-08:00

Just because you found someone means that he is the right one for you.

Are you sure he is fit for you?
Is he a blessing in the sky?
Did you choose him because of nothing or because of everything?

and the most answerable question is are you really matched by faith?

Learn to appreciate every little thing he does for you and soon you'll answer every detail of what you've asked.

Song to Pamper: "Never Knew I needed" by Ne-Yo

"Echo" by Auburn

2011-01-05T04:05:00.000-08:00

This song is about doing the same thing all over again. You said sorry and promised to change but still you ended up replaying all the attitudes you have. To make it simple. Your relationship is always circling around and it doesn't have a chance to grow. Read the chosen lyrics. Think and realize that maybe your situation is just like this.

This time you've gone to far
Don't want your gifts or cards
Time that I realize and accept you for who you are
I'm closing up my heart
Not gonna see me cry
Won't be an echo when I say goodbye

Baby I'm sorry, I'm sorry like an echo
Baby I love you, I love you like an echo
Baby I'll change, I'll change like an echo
But your still the same, the same
I gotta let go

Smile cause I'm gone

2011-01-05T03:48:00.000-08:00

Forget the times I walked by
Forget the times I made you cry
Forget the times I spoke your name
Remember now, we're not the same.

Forget the times I held your hand
Forget the sweet things if you can
Forget the times and don't pretend
Remember now, we're just friends.

Song to Pamper: "I'm Gone" by Jay Sean

A new year's gift from God.

2010-12-26T04:31:00.000-08:00

"Sometimes, it's not really a matter of choosing the right choice. It's a matter of proving that you made the right choice."

If you have found the right person for you. How will you prove to the world that she/he is the right one for you?

This is a story of a girl finding and searching for the right guy in her life. Even she came from a tragic and stormy history.

Its November 2010, tell me why does the time fly so fast. Its been 5 months since I've left my heart on the road of sorrow. I am Felice, recently studying a bachelor's degree, funny and easy to be with, talkative but in a nice way, and hoping for a guy who will not torn my heart again. I promise to myself I will not hurt anybody especially whom I loved the most. But I guess I was wrong. I gave my whole heart and now it's already torn into pieces.

Its December 2010, the last month of this empty year. I feel so empty inside. I wish I could be a dark sky so that no one can see me. My family and friends always uplift my spirit. So one day, I kneel down and talk to God praying

''I know in myself that this is just a challenge for me to encounter and to get through. I know you love me and will never leave me. I am very sorry for all the sins I have done. I hope you can forgive me. I will just wait for the right person that you will gave to me who will love me as much as I love him. And I hope you will still guide in my decisions."

The last night of the year was so uplifting. I saw a shooting star even the sky is covered up with fireworks. I wish that tomorrow, the 1st day of my new and hopefully wonderful year will be my strength for the other half that has been torn away from me.

Its January 2011, the first month of my new happy year. While walking and buying some new pair of shoes. I met this person whose named is Seth. We became friends, exchange of messages and mails. Getting to a point of knowing each other. Days passed, weeks, and even months.

Its July 2011, I am Felice recently graduated this year, newly working and officially engaged. I met Seth at some mall when I was buying a pair of shoe and planning to commit my whole life with him.

Tell me why does the time fly so fast? Its almost a year since I left my heart on the road of sorrow. But this time someone picked it up, fixed and took care until it beats again. This person saw a shooting star even the sky is covered up of fireworks and wish that he could bring the lost heart to its right owner.

I am Felice officially engaged to Seth. We both wished at a shooting star on the night of new years eve and it is truly a wonderful gift from God.

Song to Pamper: "Perfect Two" by Auburn

Ang mga weird na tao sa mundo

2010-11-26T04:18:00.000-08:00

Unang kwento:

Kilala mo ba sila?

Sino?

Ayun oh. Yung mga un. Yung group of friends.

Ah. Yung mga kaibigan ng ex mo?

Oo. Yun nga.

Anung meron sa kanila?

Sila ang mga weird na tao sa mundo.

Bakit naman?

Simple. Sila lang naman ang pasimuno, assuming, at higit sa lahat weirdo.

Grabe naman. Paano mo naman nasabi?

Unang una. Pasimuno sila sa asaran. Pangalawa assuming sila sa lahat ng bagay. At naging
weirdo sila sa paningin ko kasi akala ko magiging maayos ang lahat at sinama ko sila sa mundong binuo ko kasama siya. Pero nagkamali ako.

Bakit?

Sila rin kasi ang magtutulak na lumapit siya sa kin nung una, pero sila rin pala ang hindi rumerespeto habang unti unti na kong nabubuo.

Pangalawang kwento:

Kilala mo ba siya?

Sino?

Ayun oh. Yung taong yun.

Anung meron sa kaniya?

Siya ang weird na tao sa mundo.

Bakit naman?

Siya ang inakala kong magiging bagong kaibigan ko.

Pero?

Pero siya pala ang naging bagong ka-ibigan ng mahal ko.

-NO SONG TO PAMPER IN TAGALOG ENTRIES-

How can you tell if you still love a person?

2010-11-05T10:25:00.000-07:00

How can you really tell if you still love a very special person?

Simple things like:

- you always think of him over and over again.

- you always checked your cellphone, email, and other accounts hoping for him to respond.

- you cry at night bearing the pain he caused you.
- you can't concentrate about what you are doing.
- you still misses him.
- you always asked your common friends about where his abouts.
- and most specially you attempt to contact him but your brain always hold you back.

But, how can you tell if you don't love a person?

- you just passed her with all your might.
- you get to smile wholly.
- you ignore things that hurt you.
- you don't care about her.
- and you easily talked to her and no more scary thoughts that you might fall for her again.

Song to Pamper: "You don't want me to'' by 3rd Storee

"Cheating" by Joey Moe

2010-05-29T05:36:00.000-07:00

This song is all about lying. Cheating with your partner doesn't prove that your a mysterious person. Your not defining your self as a whole person and cheating will end up in a reason that you are not contented with your partner. Stop lying or cheating if you don't know how to hide it. Read the chosen lyrics. And realize that cheating will not make you a better person.

When i gave you everything you wanted,
gave you everything you need
gave you all my love and baby thought you were the one for me.

I caught you cheating,
My soul is screaming
i'll never heal again
but im willing to forgive you.
because im feeling,
that im still believing
cause i ain't breathing
without you by my side

Thank you

2010-05-20T20:50:00.000-07:00

For every moment of your life. There will come a time that you will feel love. But what is really love?

Love is.

^"4Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud.

⁵It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs.

⁶Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth.

⁷It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.

⁸Love never fails. But where there are prophecies, they will cease; where there are tongues, they will be stilled; where there is knowledge, it will pass away.

⁹For we know in part and we prophesy in part,

¹⁰but when perfection comes, the imperfect disappears.

¹¹When I was a child, I talked like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I put childish ways behind me.

¹²Now we see but a poor reflection as in a mirror; then we shall see face to face. Now I know in part; then I shall know fully, even as I am fully known.

¹³And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love."

- 1 Corinthians 13:4-13

Song to Pamper: "Love is your color" by Leona Lewis & Jennifer Love Hewitt

Falling in love is like

2009-10-27T11:18:00.000-07:00

Do you ever fall in love to a person? Can you explain the feeling of being love?

Here's how:

Falling in love is like adopting a pet. First you need to take care and adapt to its environment and while it lasts you are more sensitive for what have you made.

Falling in love is hard as a stone but as time goes by it will be more like as soft as a marshmallow would be.

Falling in love is like an ice cream. For somehow reasons. You need some food to comfort when your in pain.

Falling in love is like a fluffy pillow. There are instances that you don't want to let go on the arms of the one you love.

Falling in love is like putting a toothpaste under your eyes. It hurts.

Falling in love is like a war without an armor. You can't fight if you do not rely on your feelings.

And lastly falling in love is like a rainbow. A colorful sky with all the emotions that you wanna feel.

Song to Pamper: "Statue" by Lil Eddie

2009-10-27T11:15:00.000-07:00

It's quite a few weeks that I didn't wrote on my blog. And I apologize for that. School days is on break and I will try my very best to keep my blog posted. Hope you read for more entries.

"Crash And Burn" by Elise Estrada

2009-10-11T02:53:00.000-07:00

This song is about getting another chance. Especially for the part of the girl. For maybe that she has done something wrong and she wants to make it up to her man. Another chance to fix up their relationship. Read the chosen lyrics. Especially if you are a girl and if you really really want to have something back.

I know that you're hurting, I know I was wrong.
I know that for certain, you know we belong.
Please let me see you, please open up.
I beg your forgiveness, don't let us fall.

Give me one more chance,
Before we crash and burn.
Give me one more chance,
Before the point of no return.
I'd give everything to make it good again,
I'd do anything to get out of this tailspin.
Give me one more chance,
Before, before we crash and burn.

Pansin ko lang

2009-09-29T05:40:00.000-07:00

Maraming tao ang involve pagdating sa pag-ibig. Lalo na ang kabataan ngayon. Nauuso na kasi ang magkaroon ng love life sa murang edad pa lamang. Pero may mga instances na hindi maiiwasan. At may mga bagay ako na napansin sa mga magkakarelasyon tulad ng mga kabataan ngayon.

Take note: walang magrere-act ng masama dahil sariling opinyon ko to' at blog ko to.

1. Pansin ko lang...
Kapag nagbe-break ang isang mag bf/gf, ang madalas na nakikipagbalikan ay yung nag-suggest ng break-up. At bakit?

a. Namimiss niya yung ex niya.
b. Magulo ang isip niya at nakipag-break siya.
c. Ayaw pa talaga niyang tapusin yung relasyon nila pero no choice at nakipag-break pa rin siya.

2. Pansin ko lang...
Ang mga girls mahilig o masipag magtext. E bakit ang mga boys hindi?

a. Kasi kapag natapat na sila sa PC at nag-start ng mag-DOTA, iba na ang mundo nila.
b. Yung ibang boys hindi gumagawa ng paraan para ma-text ang mga gf nila. in short. "hindi nila hilig ang makitext"
c. Wala silang pakialam sa mga gf nila.

3. Pansin ko lang...
Kapag nag-aaway ang isang couple ang madalas umiiyak ay ang mga babae, bakit kaya?

a. Kasi mas emosyonal ang mga babae.
b. Isang way yun para lumambot ang mga guys pag galit sila sa gf nila.
c. Hindi lang talaga mapigilan.

4. Pansin ko lang...
Kapag may gusto ang isang tao, bakit hindi niya masabi ng diretsuhan sa taong gusto niya?

a. Sa guys, baka naman natotorpe lang.
b. Sa girls, sobrang shy type lang talaga.
c. Maraming sitwasyon ang ganito. Nadadaan na lang sa mga friends ang pag-sabi na may gusto sila sa 1 tao.

-NO SONG TO PAMPER IN TAGALOG ENTRIES-

Two philosophies of love

2009-09-20T06:45:00.000-07:00

There are two philosophies in love.

1. Give the best that you can.

2. Never stay when you are not wanted anymore.

At least you did what you are asked. You loved a person. And you know in yourself that you stay because you loved a person. But, too bad that person refuse to love you.

Song to pamper: "I'll try" by Jonatha Brooke

The one who let go or the one who left out?

2009-09-20T05:01:00.000-07:00

In every relationship, everyone encounter of having a break up story. Even the two of you is still in love with each other you still end up breaking. But, if you can't resist him/her without in your world. Who are you? The one who suggest the break up or the one who is left behind? And what will you do? Would you come back after you broke up with him/her or would you beg for him/her to stay?

Reasons why the person who suggest the break up always come back:

- He/she can't get over with what he/she have done.

- He/she broke up because of thoughts running inside his/her mind. Can't think well and decide to broke up even he/she doesn't want to.

- Peer pressure on everything. Family, friends, and environment.

- He/she can't think well. Can't even concentrate.

- He/she misses him/her a lot.

All of these reasons are based on experience. And its somehow short. And always remember that relationships are always trial and error.

Song to pamper: "If you leave" by Mary J. Blige and Musiq Soulchild

Sorry for a remix song. I can't find a proper video for this song might as well download it as a song.

Bestfriend nga ba talaga?

2009-09-08T08:20:00.000-07:00

Dati.

"Bestfriend" ang tawag sa "Matalik na kaibigan"

Pero,

Ngayon.

Ang "Bestfriend' ay?

A. Mag-syota na tinatago ang relasyon

B. Manliligaw dati na binasted o nanliligaw pa lang

C. Mag-Ex na umaasa pa ring magkakabalikan

D. Magkaibigang may tinatagong pagnanasa sa isa't-isa.

Ngayon, Masasabi mo ba talagang "Bestfriend" mo sya?

*Courtesy of Ms. Danielle P. Kuizon

-NO SONG TO PAMPER IN TAGALOG ENTRIES-

Is it ok?

2009-09-08T07:45:00.000-07:00

Is it ok if the girl would spend for her guy? But, when is too much?

It's ok to spend for gifts and other things as long as it is appreciated. But, when it is too much? Its is too much if you look like a dumb person. Buying all of he wants but not being appreciated. Guy's like those are not deserved to loved by a lovely girl.

*Love for the sake of love without expecting anything in return?
*Ideal.
*But, can we really expect ourselves to feel this way?
*Act?
*But feel?
*Maybe not.
*I believe in love is giving a big part of yourself. and in the process you find yourself needing some of it back.

Song to Pamper: "No scrub" by TLC

Learning to let somebody in

2009-08-28T15:15:00.000-07:00

Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength after losing someone.

Therefore,

Love is meant to be shared.

Do you get the point?

Song to Pamper: "Let me in" by ???

Stay with your man

2009-08-17T05:21:00.000-07:00

"Letting go is like giving the other part of your heart"

A mistress is a man's long-term female sexual partner and companion who is not married to him, especially used when the man is married to another woman. There is no specific word in English for a "male mistress", a man in the same relationship to a woman as a mistress is to a man, except for the more general term "lover", which does not carry the same implications.

A brief explanation of what does a mistress means. But in our story right here. A man is the mistress. Is it about to let go or to hold on? Is it about to tell the truth or to continue for telling a lie?

A newly wed is coming for the next 2 months. Gian is so lucky for having fernie at his side. Gian and fernie is a good and well done for each other. Unless, fernie is having an affair for another man whose named is nat. Nat and fernie known for their relationship as a best of friends at work. Nat and fernie kept their secret relationship for about half a year. Right before gian proposed to fernie. For all of the months that have passed between nat and fernie. Nat made up a decision. He will broke up with fernie. And here, how it goes. One night before the weekend, after work. Nat invite fernie to a dinner date celebrating their another month for each other. At the fancy, cozy restaurant, after they have eaten their desserts. Nat told fernie the truth.

Nat: Fern, you know that I love you right? and I really do. But, we have to end this up. Gian needs you. And you're getting married soon. He needs you at his life forever.

Fernie: What? Why? I would return our engagement ring this coming weekend and tell the truth about us.

Nat: But, you're 4 months pregnant. Stay with him and build up your own family together. And you will learn to love gian as much as you give your love to me.

Fernie: But? (tears fall from her eyes)

Nat: I want you but he really needs you. I'm sorry for not staying and letting you go. I know it would hurt us both but its for good. goodbye.

Nat goes out of the place and stop for a while on the bench of the nearby park and cry. As days passed, until the wedding of fernie and gian came. On the day of the wedding, Fernie's tummy is almost big and nat didn't came. On the day that fernie is giving birth on her baby boy. Nat came and give her a gift. Fernie named her baby nathaniel. And so their was. Nat and fernie talked but both happy for their new lives.

Inspired by the song Real Thing.

Song to Pamper: "Real Thing" by Ne-Yo

"Papercut" by Jordin Sparks

2009-08-10T06:31:00.000-07:00

This song is all about moving on. In short its about telling to that person that after a break-up whether its bitter or not, you just feel a mild pain and lwtting him/her know that he/she is not a lost in your life. Read the chosen lyrics. Identify your own feelings of how to move on.

I'm ok, I'm ok
don't keep asking me I might dissenagrate
What you want? I moved on.
Everything is going well at least
that's what I tell myself
I wish I was the tinman so I
wouldn't have a heart to break

I'm ok, I'll survive
I only think about you half of the time
All these tears are just drops in the ocean baby
You barely even cross my mind, no no
And it doesn't hurt that much
It was only a papercut
Its only a papercut. papercut yeah

My heart can hear you

2009-08-02T02:59:00.000-07:00

This is maybe the most overwhelmed, dramatic but happy love story. Even I shed a tear for this story. Read it. Its very inspiring.

Here is a story of one of my reader's who accept love even trials and judgement goes through them.

"Do you ever see a person who has nothing to see, nothing to hear or nothing to say? Eventually that person might be blind, deaf or mute. But, do you ever wonder to fall in love to a person who has that kind of illness? Me? Yes, I do. I have fallen in love to a person who is deaf and mute. And even she have that special kind of illness. I truly do love her. My name is adan and my wife is trina. We have a son right now and his name is charlz. I am currently an area manager at a company of clothes. Me and my wife has a speech center which teach sign language. For once and for all, here it is. My own love story that gave me full of heart burns but still ended up happy. One day, I saw trina at some fastfood restaurant. I saw a beautiful lady with her nice dress and eating some ice cream chocolate sundae. I sat by her side and introduce myself. She has nothing to say but just stare at my mouth. She pulled out a pen and a small notebook at her bag and she began to write something that say's "I can't hear what you are saying and I can't talk. But, I can read your lips. By the way, my name is trina" So now I understand why she is staring at my lips. So there it was. We exchanged numbers. I texted her always. We start dating even she is quiet all the time. I don't know why I am so attracted to her. Until, one time. I realize that for a better communication. I would also want to know how to speak using my hand. So I enrolled up to a sign language course and trina always goes with me. I introduced her to my family and friends. It was fine and it's hard for them to accept trina as my girlfriend. There was one time, in my apartment that my mom sent me an email about trina that I should left her and find someone else that is normal. I disagree to my mom of what she said. I said trina is normal and I love her and I will never leave her alone. And for the hard part, trina saw that mail on my laptop and told me that my mom was right. I explained and told trina that I don't care about her illness and I accept her whatever she has. Trina left and gave me a cd and a note that say's "Play me". I played that cd and heard a musical piano song. Days have passed away. I look for trina, I texted her but she always doesn't reply. Until one rainy day in that fastfood restaurant where we first meet. I saw her there sitting with a chocolate sundae at her table and wearing that nice, cozy dress. I sit by her side and give a note that say's "I played your cd" and suddenly she looked at my eyes, get my left hand and put it on her heart. She sign language with her other hand that say's "My heart can hear you". A tear fall from my eyes and I hug her so tight that I don't want to let her go. After that, I give her a ring and proposed to her. I always bring that ring everytime I looked for trina. We faced each other families and for the better. My mom accepted her. We we're married and put up a house and began to plan for our speech center. I always wanted to have some kids on our house. But trina is afraid that it will be like her, prior to her illness. So, trina and I took some medical advice that there is a chance that our baby will be normal. And so on, trina was pregnant and I am very happy that I will be soon a dad. Furthermore, trina give birth to a our son named charlz. Charlz was normal. He can hear and talk. We we're happy and our speech center is going strong. So, this is my dramatic but full of joy love story. I hope I will read it soon on your blog. Thank you very much." - Adan

Tricia:

"If you truly love a person, you will accept who he/she was or what he/she has."

Thanks to you adan. It was very overwhelming for you to share that kind of experience in your life. Take care of your family and Godbless.

Song to Pamper: "Music of my heart" by N'sync & Gloria Estefan

Pencil VS. Ballpen

2009-08-02T02:38:00.000-07:00

Weird title isn't it? Read and you will know.

"Life is like a pencil. You start whole, still without knowledge of the hurtful abrasions that only love could bring. When you start to use the pencil, the very lead center of its being slowly dissipates, that which used to be full, sharp, and strong yet begins to grow blunt and blurry. Just like love, which eventually drains away. A pencil that runs out of lead is useless. Just like love, without its core, love loses its meaning." - Lara Chua

Special translation by Ms. Jessica Marie O. Reyes

"Love is like a ballpoint pen. You just flow out of love until you can manage it. When you ran out of ink. You will try it on a paper just to make it write again. Just like love, when it stops. It really stops. But when the ink comes out again. You will use it but with extra care and a reminder that it runs out of ink. Just like love, when that person came back to you. You will love and take good care of him/her everyday while it last but with a warning that he/she can leave you again." - Tricia Noble

Song to Pamper: "Sitting here" by Pure Harmony

Me or another person?

2009-07-31T06:31:00.000-07:00

"Nothing is more painful than realizing he/she meant everything to you, and you mean nothing to him/her."

Simple but has a lot of meanings. If you're committed to a person who doesn't know your worth and just a replace to his/her past. Just let go and try to realize that a wonderful person like you is not meant for a stubborn person like him/her. Know your self and your worth. You are a person that want to receive love and care. If you think that you are just taken for granted. Let go even if it hurts.

Song to Pamper: "His Mistakes" by Usher

Joe D' Mango Lovenotes

2009-07-19T03:06:00.000-07:00

I was shocked that I found this kind of video on Youtube. I was a fan of this portion on the fm radio at Wave89.1 I hope you would watch and like it. It was then my inspiration for writing this blog.

1st episode

1st episode advice

2nd episode & advice

Don't say goodbye, say goodnight

2009-07-18T16:24:00.000-07:00

Many of us encountered a tragedy like dying. Especially in our own families. It hurts right? But, what if someone you loved died? Would you accept the fact that he/she is gone?

This is a story of two hearts mingled as one. Eventually putting up their lives together, planning for a perfect future, perfect family. Until a deadly disease came upon and yet, still ending up happy.

Boe and Katelyn met in a coffee shop every break time in their work. They always bump into each other and for the misfortune time. Boe introduce his self to Katelyn. They became friends, exchange numbers, they begun dating for weeks, months and years. Boe decided to propose and it was accepted. Boe and katelyn married. Bought a new house, new furnitures and many more. But, they didn't have any children at all. They just want to enjoy their lives as a happy and married couple. Yet, you cannot live a life full of enjoyment. One day katelyn is having some acute memory loss. Like forgetting something which is always listed in her reminders note and many more. She usually changes her personality. From being a stand-up person in her work to a stubborn one. She often has hallucination. Her sensory perception doesn't work quite well. So boe notice about what katelyn actions these past days and weeks. Boe told katelyn to go the doctor for a check-up. In a hospital katelyn was introduced to a physician who is especialized on brains. Katelyn took some diagnosis, evaluation and tests. The doctor said that because of having that kind of symptoms, she has a disease called "Creutzfeldt–Jakob disease or CJD" and told that it doesn't have any cure. Katelyn was shocked at first and didn't know what to do. At home, boe asked her about her check-up and all she say is she is going back in another week for another tests. Another day has passed and an incident happens. One time, when boe and katelyn was playing tennis. When boe is hitting the ball and katelyn which is usually going to hit back. But, just stand and stare at the ball and the ball hit her head. So boe got worried about what katelyn condition. Boe go to the hospital and search for her wives disease. Katelyn's doctor told him about her wife's condition and it doesn't have any cure. Boe cannot accept the fact that his wife has a dying disease and can only live for 4 months starting on. Boe did his best for katelyn to be happy for her few months. As months past. Boe and katelyn was in their house for boe knew that katelyn's time is coming. They were in bed, starring at each other. Boe told katelyn how much he really love her and he would spent his life with her even at another world. Katelyn hugged boe, tears flow at her eyes and said "Don't say goodbye my love but instead say goodnight" Katelyn closed her eyes and died. And boe injected some drugs on his self and died also for a few seconds.

For this story it tells us that love and death can do us part.

Song to pamper: "Bye bye" by Ahmir

No Fight or No Love?

2009-07-06T05:16:00.000-07:00

Do you believe that when you are committed to a person, do you always need to fight? Its normal to argue. But, it's weird if you commit yourself to a person you love so much but you prove to yourself that he/she doesn't love you because of having no fight or argue.

Some story.

Him: Does she truly love me?

Him 2: Why do you ask?

Him: Because we've been together for almost 5 months and we didn't fight at all. Even if I do something stupid she just let me. Does she love me?

Him 2: For me, I don't know. Because I totally don't know her. Maybe she loves you or maybe not. I guess.

Him: What will I do?

Him 2: Break up with her. From that you will know if she truly love you or not.

(Breaking up happens)

Him 2: What happen?

Him: She agree. She accept my decision for not continuing our relationship.

Him 2: Sorry to say this. But, she didn't really love you.

Him: I know.

If you are experiencing this kind of situation. You better think and do the same. For we didn't know that maybe he/she doesn't really love you. He/she is just playing around with you or you are just a reservation.

Song to pamper: "More" by Silk

Long distance is not as simple as it looks.

2009-07-05T02:02:00.000-07:00

Long distance relationship is not a joke. It takes time, patience, trust, challenge and many lot more. Many incidents can lead to sacrifice and pain. So if you have a relationship with someone who is far away from you. You may relate to this story.

Here is a story of one of my reader's who sacrifice a relationship for the sake of being away.

"Good day tricia. My name is eddie but ed for short. I'm here in states right now. Can you help me about my enthusiasm right now? Since college I've met celine and we were good friends so on and so forth we've been partner until we graduated. We passed on our board exam. We are office mate in the 1st company that we took on. And eventually as years go by. We had plans in our lives. We will be married and have a good family. But, all of that plans, experiences, and many more have been trashed away in the past. A year back then. I was promote from my job and destined to be assigned here in states. Celine and I at first didn't know what to do. I wanted this promotion for my future and family also. And yet, I set aside my love for celine. Before going here I broke up with celine. I don't know why did I do that. I hurt celine for that one situation. I sacrifice our relationship because I don't want to have a "long distance relationship". I know I was stupid but I didn't know what to do. I was blind in the reality for the promotion. All my hopes, dreams, and plans for me and celine were all gone. I'm sorry for celine for hurting her. Am I stupid tricia for what I've done? Should I go home and say sorry for celine? Will she want me back? Please help me. All concern." -Ed

Tricia:

Hi ed. For me as a girl. I was frustrated for your decision of leaving celine. Because first of all, you know celine for how many years. Since college right? and you both work for the same office. How can you made up your mind so fast and didn't think very deeply. Celine was your life back then but you still choose that job or promotion for the sake of money I guess. I'm sorry for blaming you. Hopefully, You give chance for your relationship with celine. Even if your far away with her you still sacrifice. That's why there is a name for "long distance relationship" Or if you really love celine. All you have to do was go to states, work for money and put up your own family with celine. I don't really know if celine will want you back. Try to communicate with her again and tell her that you're sorry and how you really love her. Tell her how stupid you are for not thinking and making a quick but unreliable decision. Sorry for the harsh words ed. And thank you for sharing your story. Always keep reading.

Song to pamper: "Long Distance" by Brandy

"If I Say" by Alain Cruz

2009-06-29T06:14:00.000-07:00

This song is all about saying to the person that you love is the one that is meant for you. You will love him/her forever till' death do you part. Read the chosen lyrics. It will emphasize that saying "I love you" a hundred or thousand times is not enough to prove that you really love a person.

Girl you've been the greatest prize any man can ask for.
Sacrifice everything for your love.
With your presence, I am breathless.
I want to hold you forever.
I fall for you more and more when I look into your eyes.
Baby I'm glad you found your way in my life.
Hoping one day you will be my bride, so I can love you forever.

If I say I love you a thousand times, it would never be enough.
I would sail across a desert mound, just to feel your tender touch.
If I say I love you a thousand times, it would never be enough.
I would sail across a desert mound, just to feel your tender touch.

Someone asked me...

2009-06-29T04:18:00.000-07:00

My close friend asked me.

"As a blogger, What is the most painful thing that you ever experienced in being in love?"

First I was enormous for asking me that kind of thing. It may made me wonder but, I answered it with all honesty.

"For me the most painful thing that happened in my entire life is when I love a person with all my heart and soul and I couldn't patch things up.

But where is the pain in there?

It's when the one that I love decided to end it up and I have no other choice but to give up."

My friend was shocked and agree for what I've said.

Song to pamper: "If I knew" by Glenn Medeiros

How to be a GF/BF material?

2009-06-18T20:55:00.001-07:00

For you to be appreciated by your partner. You need to have a good potential to make him/her realize that you are really meant for each other.

"Your special someone doesn't need to ask you a question for what you want or what you demand, Because if that person is really special he/she knows every detail of you even without asking."

Here are some incidents that can rely on how to be a good bf/gf material.

- If neither of you is sick. The best way to show that you care is by giving him/her what he/she wants. If it can't be done. A simple call (not text) can be expressed that you are worry about him/her.

- In case that you are out with your family or friends and you didn't have any load or your cellphone battery went out. Just text him/her where you are, what are you doing, and when can you get home so that he/she will stop worrying about you.

- For boys only. Its better to bring her some food after a class or work. Almost all girls appreciate this kind of sweetness.

- For girls only. Many guy has a lazy work when school is the topic. To show that you really care. Do some job that your bf didn't notice that they are not doing it. But do not be slave for him. Just a little work is fine.

- Many relationships comes in their way the "lovers quarrel" So, if you encounter a war with him/her and it ends up at saying sorry. Show some efforts that you really mean that you are sorry. Like surprise him/her at simple but possible ways.

Remember: This entry is made up for every couple to have a good potential of showing that you really love someone. Don't think that it is a demand for though every person have the right to demand on what he/she wants when it comes in commitment.

Song to pamper: "Make me whole" by Amel Larrieux

Bible words

2009-06-10T21:49:00.000-07:00

"So that they are no more two, but one flesh. What therefore God has joined together, don't let man tear apart."

"Kaya nga hindi na sila dalawa, kundi isang laman. Ang pinapagsama nga ng Dios, ay huwag papaghiwalayin ng tao."

- Matthew 19:6

"House and wealth are an inheritance from fathers, But a prudent wife is from the LORD."

"Bahay at mga kayamanan ay minamana sa mga magulang: nguni't ang mabait na asawa ay galing sa Panginoon."

- Proverbs 19:14

Just love the writings in the Bible. It has all the meaning.

-NO SONG TO PAMPER IN TAGALOG ENTRIES-

Ways of Proposing

2009-06-10T20:08:00.000-07:00

The month of June is in the calendar again. This month is very special for the couple's who are getting married. But, before the marriage. There is always a move that every men should do. Their propose to the woman whom they love and want to be their wives.

Here are the special ways to make a move or something different to propose.

1. CONCERT - Take her to a concert, and if you have the courage to propose to her in front of many people just to make it special and memorable.

2. WINE/CAKE - Many have done this before. You will put the ring inside a cake or in the wine glass. Just make sure she won't choke.

3. MEMORABLE PLACE - Go to your favorite/memorable place together.

4. LETTER - Write a letter of how much you love her, your promises to her and after she read that letter, go and ask her.

5. STUFF TOY - Buy a stuff toy that has a recordable device. Record the things you want to say to her and then at the end of that record. You should ask her your question.

6. VIDEO - Make a video of yourself, photos, etc. Watch it together and at the end of the video type something about marriage and how you want to spend your life with her.

7. BOUQUET OF FLOWERS - Buy a long stem of rose. Maybe 3 or 2 and instead of ribbon that will tie them together use the ring and gave it to her.

Every men has a talent for these sort of things. Just make sure that you will love and care for her at all times.

Song to pamper: "Spend my life with you" by Eric Benet Ft. Tamia

Sorry for this video. I can't find the original music video or lyrical video.

My Special Person

2009-06-02T21:44:00.000-07:00

Do you meet your special person? Does he/she make you smile? Is he/she always there for you? and most specially do you love him/her?

For me a special person is the one who I can rely on at times when I'm in hurt, good or pain. Who can make you smile really deeply and knowing that you are his/her only one. Who will sacrifice everything just to be with you. Who will wait for you after your class just to ride you home. Who will say the things that can make you laugh until your tummy aches. Who will understand you for the fault that you have done. Who will criticize your blog because of misunderstanding. Who will make you cry real tears because he is angry. Who will get jealous in front of anybody. Who will take you home because your drunk. Who will pinch you because of eating too much sweets. Who will go with you at far places just for your birthday. Who will planned everything just to make you happy. Who will come to you when you are crying. Who will hold your hands even if at public places. Who will trust and faithful to you. Who will talked to you at the phone until it's morning. Who will bite your arms just to express his love. Who will call you his only one. And who will say's the word's "I love you and I don't want to lose you"

Even If I, can't tell how special a person is. I know deep here inside my heart that he is a special person. I'm sorry for what I've done that cause you so much pain. Please forgive. It's like the korean movie that I've watched its say's:

"Forgiving is like putting a little room inside your heart, and put all the hatred inside"

I dedicate this song to my special person.

What can i do to make it right
Cause I'm just lying here awake all Night
And I don't know what to do
All i know is that I'm missing you
And I
Don't understand the reason why
I wish i had just one last goodbye
I wish things could be the way they use to be
When it was just you and me.

Song to pamper: "Why" by LS3

2009-06-02T20:30:00.000-07:00

10 Painful things about L-O-V-E:

1. Bringing back the feeling you've

learned to forget.

2. Reminiscing the good times.

3. Trying to hide what you really feel.

4. Loving someone who loves another.

5. Having commitment with someone you know wouldn't last.

6. Shielding your heart to love somebody.

7. Loving a person too much.

8. Right love at a wrong time.

9. Taking risk to fall in love again.

10. Accepting that it was never really meant to be.

"Why does its so hard to fall in love?"

Song to pamper: "If this isn't love" by Jennifer Hudson

"Questions" by Blaque

2009-05-28T07:58:00.000-07:00

This song is all about making sure of the things that they must complete. The song entitles as a question because of the things that a woman wants to know and making an assurance for his man. Read the chosen lyrics. And dedicate this to a man who don't know nothing but just taking for granted of the feelings that is shared with him.

I wanna know why this feels so right
i wanna know why u hold me tight
each and every night, it keeps me up all night
thinkin about the things i like
can't believe your in my life
i wanna know why ur the one
the things that they should have you've already done
God sent u straight to me
you make me wanna sing lalalalala

but when u look at me, do u see ur wife?
can u picture us lovin' each other for life?
are u playin' the role, just like the rest
these are the questions that i ask myself
if, another should come, who's finer than me
and she wanna take ur love away, would u leave?
baby please answer these question

PAG-IBIG SURVEY

2009-05-25T22:02:00.000-07:00

Ang survey na ito ay nagmula sa 100 katao at mabuting inusisa at pinagaralan para sa mga taong nagtataka tungkol sa pag-ibig. Husgahan man o laitin ay hindi ko na kapakanan iyon at ito'y reaksyon lamang ng iba't ibang tao. -TRICIA

TANONG: Sino ang madalas nagseselos? Boy or Girl?

SURVEY SAY's: Boy - 78% Girl - 22%

FACT: Bakit nga ba mas madalas magselos ang mga lalaki? dahil ang mga babae kapag nagseselos man yan hindi nila pinapakita sa partner nila. Ginagamit nila ang mga terms na "girl's talk, cry on pillow, chocolate addiction". Ngunit ang mga lalaki kapag nagseselos. Humanda ka na at magagalit at bubungangaan ka na nyan. Kahit na sabihin mong kaibigan mo lang yun.

TANONG: Totoo ba na ang mga magbebestfriend ay nag-eending sa mag-boboyfriend o girlfriend? Oo o Hindi?

SURVEY SAY's: Oo - 63% Hindi - 37%

FACT: Sa panahon ngayon. Ang style ng mga lalaki para maging commit sila ng nagugustuhan nila ay sa pamamagitan ng pag-bebestfriend. Pero kung hindi sila nag-end up sa ganung sitwasyon nirerespeto nila ang isa't isa at un ang mas mahalaga.

TANONG: Kailangan bang dumaan ang isang couple sa PMS? Oo o Hindi?

SURVEY SAY's: Oo - 25% Hindi - 75%

FACT: "PMS" o Pre-marital sex. ang dumadaan lang dyan ay ang mga taong binasbasan na ng kasal or "married couple". Ang mga taong may partner na ay hindi dapat gumawa ng mga ganyang bagay lalo na kung nag-aaral ka pa. Maraming gumagawa ng PMS sa mga kabataan ngayon at mali yun! Isipin na lang nila ang magiging kinabukasan nila at ng mga magulang nila.
Kung inaya man kayo ng partner nyo lalo na kung lalaki ang nag-aya. Sipain nyo agad ung external genitalia nila para magtino.

TANONG: Sa panahon ngayon, kailangan pa bang mag-bigayan ng regalo tuwing monthsary? Oo o Hindi?

SURVEY SAY's: Oo - 50% Hindi - 50%

FACT: Ang pagbibigay ng regalo ay hindi masama. Hindi rin naman kailangang mahal o bongga ang ibibigay mo. Pero depende na lang sa inyong 2 yun kung gusto nyong magbigayan ng regalo tuwing monthsary o hindi.

TANONG: Sino ang madalas na umiiyak at nagmamakaawa kapag break up ang pinag-uusapan? Guy or Girl?

SURVEY SAY's: Guy - 82% Girl - 18%

FACT: Bakit mga lalaki? kasi ang mga lalaki nagloloko man yan, babalik at babalik pa rin yan sa nauna. At ang mga lalaki tinitignan nila agad yung future kesa ang present.

TANONG: Ano ang madalas na comfort food after break up? Chocolate or Beer?

SURVEY SAY's: Chocolate - 77% Beer - 23%

FACT: Sa mga lalaki, ang tinutungga nila pag break na ay beer. Pero sa mga babae sy chocolate. Ngunit, sa panahon ngayon mas malakas pa atang uminom ang mga babae kesa sa mga lalaki. Kaya nagiging comfort food na rin ng mga babae ang beer.

TANONG: Sang-ayon ba kayo na ang mga lalaki ang madalas na gumagastos kapag may date? Oo o Hindi?

SURVEY SAY's: Oo - 88% Hindi - 12%

FACT: Sa part ng babae syempre OO naman. Pero sa part ng mga lalaki minsan may OO minsan merong Hindi. Dahil sa pananaw ng mga magulang kapag ang boyfriend ng anak nila ay hindi willing gumastos o kuripot inaayawan nila agad iyon. Ngunit sa hirap ng panahon ngayon mas mabuti nang hati o share na lang kayo o kaya naman minsan babae naman ang gagastos para fair.

TANONG: Alin ang mas matimbang? Ang Girlfriend/Boyfriend o Ang Bestfriend?

SURVEY SAY's: GF/BF - 41% Bestfriend - 59%

FACT: Dapat pantay lang. Ngunit ang bestfriend mo andyan sya parati para sayo at ang partner mo mahal mo pero once na mag-break kayo, putol na rin pati pagkakaibigan nyo.

Sana nakatulong ito sa inyo. Kung gusto nyo pa ng ganitong SURVEY. Mag-email lang kau sa akin at cia16mae@yahoo.com salamat!

-NO SONG TO PAMPER IN TAGALOG ENTRIES-

"Next To You" by Jordin Sparks

2009-05-19T06:52:00.000-07:00

This song is all about falling for a person but truly you really can't confess what feel for that person. This song is dedicated to everyone that secretly falling and didn't know what to do but just wait.
Read the chosen lyrics. And it will point out to your inner bone.

Maybe were friends

Maybe were more
Maybe it's just my imagination
But I see you stare just a little too long
And it makes me start to wonder
So baby call me crazy
But I think you feel it too
Maybe I, Maybe I
Just got to get next to you

Secretly falling in-love or deserving to be like this

2009-05-16T06:46:00.000-07:00

Do you have a secret crush on your school? or a friend that means a lot to you? Many people in this world don't know how to express their true feelings for that special one. They just wait and wait until nothing happens.

Love is possible after friendship.
But, friendship is not possible after love.

This is a story about a girl who eventually fall for her friend but just keep her feelings inside her heart.

Katie is now on her junior year in college. She's funny, strong, nice, always there when her friends needed her and she is a good student. Katie has a lot of friends in school or even back at home. But, there is someone special that can make katie weak, Jerry. Jerry is katie's special friend. They are always together like their is something between them. Yet, jerry has a girlfriend and that girl means a lot to him. Everytime katie and jerry are together. Their friends always tease them as if they are couple. And jerry always said that katie is just my special friend and always there beside me. Katie in deep sorrow just accept the fact that she is just a special person in jerry's life. One time maggie, the bestfriend of katie notice something. When jerry is not around katie is always quiet and always want to rush things that they do. But, when jerry is at her side. Katie is back to normal again. Having a sweet laugh and noisy again. So, maggie talked to katie.

Maggie: Do you feel something special about jerry?

Katie: Me? no. we're just friends. and I'm happy to have him as a friend.

Maggie: Are you sure?

Katie: Yeah! Im sure.

But, maggie already knew that katie is secretly falling for jerry. Meanwhile, many days have passed. Katie confess to maggie that she is falling deeply in love with jerry and didn't know what to do.

Katie: Maggs, I love him. Everytime we are together, i feel really really happy. I wish I could stop time just to be with him.

Maggie: But katie, jerry has a girlfriend. and he really really loves her.

Katie: I know, that's why I'm telling you this. What should I do?

Maggie: I know you love him. But you are just hurting yourself. There are two options for that. First, if you have the courage to tell him then go and tell him about what you feel for him. And second, if you really really truly love him. You just might accept the fact that he is not the right person for you. And the most perfect thing to do is to let go.

Katie think about what maggie advice her. So, after few days. She began to tolerate the situation. She accept that she is just a special friend to jerry.

Song to Pamper: "From A Distance" by Nasri

Even 3rd party separates us apart

2009-05-10T05:15:00.000-07:00

Even if you are committed to a person, it doesn't always mean that the two of you is happily ever after. There are always consequences that you may encounter through your journey together and the one but major factor of having an endlessly happiness is for the both of you to be loyal and faithful to each other. But, if you break that major factor it can lead to a break up and an example of this break up is having a third party either for the two of you.

Here is a story about a happy couple whom eventually turned into a bitter break up because of having a third party on their side.

Brent and Aya is a happy couple though at adult years, they've been together for 2 years straight. Brent is the type of guy who will secure and love aya for anything else. And aya is a type of girl that sets her mind in the near future just to be with brent. They both love, trust, faithful and loyal for each other. But like any kind of relationships they have also struggles and pains that have come in their way. And the most weird and unexplainable cause of their break up is because of Aya having another boy named Michael. Michael is the best buddy of brent. They've known each other since grade school. But when brent introduce aya to him. Michael just couldn't stop his feelings for aya. Afterwards, everytime brent and aya quarrel. Michael is always their to comfort aya. And since then, if brent isn't on the side of aya. Michael always runs to her and make her day happy and complete. Yet that is not enough. Aya felt something too for michael. She falls for him quickly. They kept it as a secrety love. Until brent noticed something between the two. Everytime the three of them together. Michael and aya isn't talking too much and mostly feel nervous about each other. And one night after a dinner date at a restaurant, a way back home. Aya confess to brent about her secretly commitment with michael. Brent couldn't understand why does he is being cheated by a girl who is inlove with his bestfriend. Brent is so mad that he slap aya's face. On the next day, michael talked to brent about his issue and brent told him that for all the girls that he introduce to him, why does aya is the one whom he would fall for. Michael and aya talked. They felt sorry and told brent that they couldn't resist their feelings for both of them. Brent for now is lonely with all the heartaches and burdens that he feel. His past girlfriend and bestfriend fall for each other while him is hurt and alone.

So for this kind of situation. For every couple. You should give your full faith and loyalty to the one you love. and make him/her the feeling of being a one of a kind person in this earth.

Song to Pamper: "With Him" by Babyface

"This Is Us" by Keyshia Cole

2009-05-07T08:22:00.000-07:00

This song is all about being proud to your own relationship with your special someone. You should dedicate this song to your loved one and whenever your always together, always act like he/she is the only person you see. Always loved him/her. Read the chosen lyrics. You will see the true meaning of this song.

From the start to the end
We don't need to pretend
That we're perfect all the time
'cause we know what we have
Thru the good the bad
It's a strength that you can't deny...

I don't need to find a million reasons why
This is us, this is us, this is how we love
Some ways we're different
But together we're so right
This is us, this is us
And this is how we love

Does Forever Really Exist?

2009-05-05T10:56:00.000-07:00

"I Love You Forever, but you might say their is no such thing as forever. Until you met me."

A cheesy line isn't it? But, at some point of view their is a clue that I can't identify. You can love a person forever. "If" he/she is also willing to love you till' the end. Who stays with you, take every risks with you, and be with you forever. For me, as my own opinion. Just read.

"Forever really exists if the two of you is always together and in love with each other through thick and thin"

Song to Pamper: "All my life" by Kc & Jojo

Suffocation of One Perspectively Love

2009-05-05T09:54:00.000-07:00

Is it true that suffocation can lead to a break up? And whose fault does it required? The one who is tied on the neck or the other side that doesn't know his/her limitation?

Here is a story of one of my reader's who suggest a break up because of suffocation.

"Hi tricia! It's been a long time that you didn't update your site. But, I hope you will still put my story in your blog. Furthermore, My name is Gwyneth and I would like to seek some good advice that I can cope because of my ever bitter break up with my past boyfriend "David". David and I have been fighting for almost a month because of his attitude that always kept my head hurt. He was controlling me for these and that. Every move that I make, he always noticed it and it irritates me. I've known david for a year and a half. But, these past months, he's like my parents. Strict and always hot headed. I've noticed that everytime we're going on a date or something. He always wants that no part of my shoulder would be seen. I know its weird but what will I do? Instead of having fun outside, we end up arguing. And sometimes, me and my friends were a having a lunch at a near fast food restaurant. He suddenly showed up and pulled me at the door with a unexplainable reason. I dont know what to do at that very moment. What will I explain to my friends of having a very paranoid lover. And for that incidence, I woke up from my nightmare. I talked to him one night and I told him that I am scared to lose him but the way he act is just too much and I can't take it anymore. He cried and told me that he is just so much inlove with me and he is too afraid that I will find someone else that I would leave him. But, I had enough. I don't wanna be with him anymore. Once is enough, twice is a war. At this times, he always call me up and tell me that he still love me, he ask for a second chance and he will change. What will I do? Should I give him a second chance or not? I don't like to be controlled by someone anymore. Thanks for this opportunity. And I hope I will see this soon." -Gwyneth

Tricia:

A boy was asking his mother how to find the right girl, his mother said

"Don't think about that too much, concentrate about being the right guy first."

Hello Gwyneth! That story of yours is a challenge for every girl. It's a type of dare whether you choose your heart or your mind. Your heart, because of the feelings you have for david and your mind, for your own rights as a person. The short story up their is dedicated to david, you should read that to him. So he will realize his own mistake of having a strict attitude. For me as a girl, i will not give david a second chance. And like what you have said "Once is enough, twice is a war." But, its your choice. Just think very deeply. Should you follow your heart or your mind?

You too can share your own love story. Just send it to my e-mail address at cia16mae@yahoo.com

Song to Pamper: "Suffocate" by J.Holiday

Ready to read my blog again?

2009-05-02T02:29:00.000-07:00

Hey people! I'm back. We have an internet connection again and I will post a new entry as much as possible. just wait, sit back and read. thanks for visiting always. Ciao'

-Tricia

"When It Was Me" by Paula DeAnda

2009-04-16T07:03:00.000-07:00

This song is all about bitterness. it is concentrated on a girl's part only. So to all the girls that can't accept their break up's and can't accept that your guy had found someone new. This is the kind of song that is made especially for you. But, just a little advice. Don't cry and force yourself to him anymore. you don't deserve to be with him. There is someone who can make you happy and love you as twice as your past. Read the chosen lyrics. And you will realize that its his lost and not yours.

Ooh, ooh, and I'm not jealous, no I'm not
Ooh, ooh, I just want everything she's got
Ooh, ooh, you look at her so amazed
I remember way back when you used to look at me that way

Tell me what makes her so much better than me (so much better than me)
What makes her just everything that I can never be
What makes her your every dream and fantasy
Because I can't remember when it was me

And now you don't feel the same
I remember you would shiver everytime I said your name
You said nothing felt as good as when you gaze into my eyes
Now you don't care I'm alive
How did we let the fire die

That made you smile
That made you laugh
Even if it makes you happier than you have ever been, oh me
That was your world (me)
Your kind of girl
Nothing about me has changed
That's why I'm here wondering

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2009-04-12T20:03:00.000-07:00

I'm really sorry for not updating or writing a new blog entry. Because of having an error at our home. We don't have an internet connection. But, when the time comes. I will right as soon as possible. I'm really sorry. I hope you understand.

-tricia

Ratio of RISK and PROFIT

2009-03-11T21:45:00.000-07:00

Definition:

RISK - possibility of loss or injury, the degree of probability of such loss

PROFIT - a valuable return

Is this related to love? Yes, definitely. Why? here's how.

Someone told me that in business there is a ratio. It is the ratio of risk and profit. just like in love. when your in a situation that you cannot handle. Think about its ratio. Define its meaning, if the risk is too high to attain a good relationship the profit is nonsense. But, if the risk is low or decreasing and there's many chance to choose from then the profit will be in a better quality.

Song to Pamper: "Passion" by Lemonade

To him

2009-03-11T21:13:00.000-07:00

"I love you and I don't want to lose you"

These are the words that I used to say to my loved one. I really love him with all my heart. I thought we will last and face the trials that would come to us. But, at this very right moment. A consequence has been given to me. It include my religion. Its very hard to choose. My mom spoke to me about that and these things. It made me wonder that she is right. and I have to take the right path. and for this instance moment I hurt him. and I'm really sorry for hurting him, its not my intention to hurt you but its very difficult for me to attained this kind of situation. we can be friends, good friends. I will love you always and I hope you understand, even if I cry. I know its my fault but don't dictate me for what I've done. I'm letting you go. I'm sorry. Its very hard for me to be separate with you but maybe it is destined to be this. I want you to be happy, I want to see you smile always, and I want you to find someone that is better than me. who will not hurt you and make you cry. I wish that we will stay friends and no hard feelings. I'm really sorry. I love you.

Next Attraction

2009-03-03T02:08:00.000-08:00

I'm really sorry for the late posts. because I have so many things to do. just wait for my next blog entries.

- "Suffocation of one perspectively love"

- "Even third party separates us apart"

- "What does it take to be a Lesbian or Gay?"

- "My own puppy love"

- "Secretly falling in-love or deserving to be like this"

A Girl's Request

2009-02-23T07:12:00.000-08:00

1. Watch the sunset together.

2. Whisper to each other.

3. Cook for each other.

4. Walk in the rain.

5. Hold hands

6. Buy gifts for each other.

7. Roses.

8. Find out their favorite cologne/perfume and wear it every time you're together.

9. Go for a long walk down the beach at midnight.

10. Write poetry for each other.

11. Hugs are the universal medicine.

12. Say only when you mean it and make sure they know you mean it.

13. Give random gifts of flowers/candy/poetry etc.

14. Tell her that she's the only girl you ever want. Don't lie!

15. Spend every second possible together.

16. Look into each other's eyes.

17. Very lightly push up her chin, look into her eyes, tell her you love her, and kiss her lightly.

18. When in public, only flirt with each other.

19. Put love notes in their pockets when they aren't looking.

20. Buy her a ring.

21. Sing to each other.

22. Always hold her around her hips/sides.

23. Take her to dinner and do the dinner for two deal.

24. Spaghetti? (Ever see Lady and the Tramp?)

25. Hold her hand, stare into her eyes, kiss her hand and then put it over your heart.

26. Dance together.

27. I love the way a girl looks right after she's fallen asleep with her head in my lap.

28. Do cute things like write I love you in a note so that they have to look in a mirror to read it.

29. Make excuses to call them every 5 minutes

30. Even if you are really busy doing something, go out of your way to call and say I love you.

31. Call from your vacation spot to tell them you were thinking about them.

32. Remember your dreams and tell her about them.

34. Tell each other your most sacred secrets/fears.

35. Be Prince Charming to her parents.

36. Brush her hair out of her face for her.

37. Hang out with his/her friends.

38. Go to church/pray/worship together.

39. Take her to see a romantic movie and remember the parts she liked.

40. Learn from each other and don't make the same mistake twice.

41. Describe the joy you feel just to be with him/her.

42. Make sacrifices for each other.

43. Really love each other, or don't stay together.

44. Let there never be a second during any given day that you aren't thinking about them, and make sure they know it.

45. Love yourself before you love anyone else.

46. Learn to say sweet things in foreign languages.

47. Dedicate songs to them on the radio.

48. Fall asleep on the phone with each other.

49. Stand up for them when someone talks trash.

50. Never forget the kiss goodnight and always remember to say, "Sweet dreams."

Source: Maersklyn from Multiply

Song to Pamper: "Make You Feel My Love" by Adele

A Guy's Request

2009-02-23T06:54:00.000-08:00

We don't care if you're friends with other guys.

But when you're sitting next to us, and some random guy walks into the room and you jump up and tackle him, without even introducing us, yeah, it pisses us off.

It doesn't help if you sit there and talk to him for ten minutes without even acknowledging the fact that we're still there.

We don't care if a guy calls OR TEXTS you, but at 2 in the morning we do get a little concerned.

Nothing is that important at 2 a.m. that it can't wait

till the morning.

Also, when we tell you you're pretty/ beautiful/ gorgeous/

cute/ stunning, we freaking mean it.

Don't tell us we're wrong.

We'll stop trying to convince you.

The sexiest thing about a girl is confidence.

Yeah, you can quote me.

Don't be mad when we hold the door open. Take Advantage of the mood im in.

Let us pay for you!

Don’t "feel bad"

We enjoy doing it.

It's expected.

Smile and say "thank you."

Kiss us when no one's watching.

If you kiss us when you know somebody's looking, we'll be more impressed.

You don't have to get dressed up for us.

If we're going out with you in the first place, you don't have to feel the need to

wear the shortest skirt you have or put on every kind of makeup you own.

We like you for who you are and not what you are.

honestly, I think a girl looks more beautiful when she's just in her pj's. or my

shirt and boxers, not all dolled up

Don't take everything we say seriously.

Sarcasm is a beautiful thing. See the beauty in it.

Don't get angry easily.

Stop using magazines/media as your bible.

"Don't talk about how hott Chris Brown, Brad Pitt, or Jesse McCartney is in front of us".

It's boring, and we don't care. You have friends for that.

Whatever happened to the word "handsome"/"beautiful"?

I’d be utterly stunned by a girl who greeted me

with "Hey handsome!" instead of "Hey baby/ stud/ cutie/ sexy" or whatever else you can think of.

on the other hand I’m not saying I wouldn't like it ether

Girls, I cannot stress this enough: if you aren't being treated right by a guy, dont wait for him to change. ditch his sorry ASS, he's a disgrace to the male population and find someone who will treat you with utter respect

Someone who will honor your morals.

Someone who will make you smile when you're at your lowest.

Someone who will care for you even when you make mistakes.

Someone who will love you, no matter how bad you make them feel.

Someone who will stop what they're doing just to look you in the eyes....and say "i love you" ..and actually mean it.

Give the nice guys a chance

Guys repost this if you agree

Girls repost this if you think it's cute

Every Guy who isn't a jerk will agree with this, so we hope that all the girls that read this will repost this

*Holding Hands

Girls :If you want to hold his hand, gently bump into it a couple of

times.

Guys : Grab it if it happens more than once.

*Cuddling

Girls : When you want to cuddle with him, tell him you're cold

Guys : Automatically move closer to her.

*Movies

Girls : During a movie, if he puts his arm around you, tilt your head on his shoulder

Guys : Lift her chin up and kiss her.

*Loving each other

Guys : When she tells you she loves you, look deep into her eyes, give her a peck on the lips, and tell her you love her

too... And mean it.

*Laying below the stars

Girls : When you're both laying under the stars, put your head on his chest and close your eyes as you listen to his steady heart beat

Guys : Whisper in her ear and link your hands with hers.

Source: Mitch from Multiply

Song to Pamper: "If I Were A Boy" by Beyonce

"Tell Me" by Pitbull feat. Frankie J. & Ken Y

2009-02-17T04:17:00.000-08:00

This song is about questioning, understanding and begging. Asking for a definite reason why his/her partner is leaving him/her behind in such an instance. Read the chosen lyrics. You'll understand that letting go or giving up in a relationship needs a important reason to either of one of you.

"How am I suppose to leave you
When my heart tells me to keep you
How can you ask me to let you go?
No I just can’t let you go"

"Cant you see i'm slowly dying
but im gonna keep on trying
Please don’t ask of me to let you go"

"Let me start by telling you that I love you with all my heart
But I can’t understand the reason
When you telling me to leave
Girl me and you were suppose to be forever and ever
But instead of being in love its like we’re used to each other
How come we do this to each other
We used to ride for each other
die for each other
cry for each other
But now its like all we wanna do is say bye to each other
I can’t let this happen
I refuse to lose you
I love you baby
it’s the truth as usual"

"I know it’s hard to deal with my life
I know it’s hard to deal with all the gossip"

"You’re my heart my soul my love
and I swear to you
I just wanna give you my heart my soul my love
I know we can work this out
I know we can baby let’s try
But the one thing I wont do, is let this love die"

Continously Working or Fatefully Breaking?

2009-02-17T02:31:00.000-08:00

Can a relationship would last forever? Does really no one will give up?

Here is a story of one of my reader's who thought that their love journey would end forever.

"Good evening! I am a one of your reader's. And I thought that I will try to mend my own story to you. I don't bother if you want to post it on your blog or not. By the way, here's my story. I have this girlfriend of mine, her name is lorie. Lorie and I are good friends till' I fall for her, court her and we've became lovers for 3 executive years. I really love her and I knew that she love me too. We always hang out, we always eat at her favorite restaurants, we watch movie at her or mine's house, every time we argue and she end's up crying. I would go to the nearest convenient store to buy her an ice cream (it's her own way of keeping the pressure relief), We always stay late at night talking on the phone, she always make me smile at the point when I'm mad, and I really really love her. I sacrifice everything just for her. It's like I'm perfectly happy just to be with her. But, their this saying that "everything is destined to end" so, their it is. it all begins that we don't talk too much, she always have an excuse when I call her or we're together. There these time that we meet only once a week. Is she trying to avoid me? And I don't have a definite reason why lorie would did this to me. And everytime we meet up, I would simply ask her why she is trying to avoid me, she doesn't say a word and we ended up arguing. On the day of my birthday, we went out. But lorie is different on that day. Just like the old lorie that I knew. She's happy, sweet, and cheerful again. I thought that this was my best birthday ever, but that day was the worst. At the car while I'm driving, she hug me tight and she said the last sweetest words that I would never hear from her again "I LOVE YOU". Finally, we are at their house. I park nearby. She get out of the car and so did I. She hug me tight again and a soft but painful words came out of her mouth. "I love you but were not destined to be together, its time for you to let me go" lorie said. Sad isn't it? and of course I asked why? she didn't answer me. She just rushly go to their house. And I was shocked. I suddenly sat on the road and think. A few words broke my heart. I just went home, and at the time when I'm in my room. I call her and she answered it. I ask why? she said "I don't know, I'm just letting you go. It's maybe I'm not happy with you anymore. I don't want to be with you anymore. I'm sorry that I hurt you but I quit on being your girlfriend" I don't know what to say. A sudden tear came out of my eyes. As we meet up in class I repeatedly ask her again and again. She simply said "it's over and done, I don't want to talk with you anymore" As days passed by, I give up. I don't want to questioned her anymore. But, after all these years? she just want to broke up with me with a undefinite reason. It hurts so much. Until now I couldn't move on. What will I do? I really love lorie. And I still want our relationship to have a second chance. Help me please. -Eddie"

Tricia:

"When you learn to give up your happiness for someone,
that's the moment you learn what real love is"

As I read your story, I recently had a flashback of my past lover. Anyway, its very hard to understand why couple's nowadays is breaking up with unspecific reason. But for your situation, you did nothing wrong. Its lorie's choice to end your commitment with her and you don't have the right to make her change her mind. Yet, if she came back to you. It's your decision if you would still accept her or not. In these time, all you have to do is move on and don't push yourself to her anymore. It's very tiring and annoying. Find someone who is better than lorie. Don't be a emotional person anymore. Smile and face the problems that you have encountered. By the way eddie, Maybe my advice would help you and make you think that lorie is not the only girl in your own world. Thank you for sharing your own love story.

You too can share your own love story. Just send it to my e-mail address at cia16mae@yahoo.com

Song to Pamper: "I Quit" by Atozzio

"I'm missing you" by Bobby Tinsley

2009-01-26T06:14:00.000-08:00

This song has a special meaning. It's about a lovers who recently broke up but the guy still don't cope with that incident. In a short talk, he doesn't want to end up their relationship that's why he misses his girl. Read the chosen lyrics. You'll realize that broking up with someone you love really hurts. Especially if someone is not willing to end your relationship.

"I really wanna come to see you,
I really really wish I could,
Maybe in a couple weeks,
It’s only a couple weeks..."

"And I miss, miss, Miss..
I’m missing you..
And I don’t know..
How I’m gonna make it through..
But I gotta, gotta,
stay strong for us two..
I’m a man,
It’s a job that I gotta do."

"So I go outside and I fake a smile..
But if they only knew,
Just how many miles..
Were between love so true,
I really couldn’t cope the way that we do (that we do..)
And I’m really really missing you"

Bestfriend Now, Lovers Later

2009-01-26T05:04:00.000-08:00

A bestfriend is someone who has a big attachment on you that's why it is called "BEST".

A person who can rely on in times of trouble and can only see your true personality.
But, what if? your best bud fall in love with you. Should you give your heart too?

I think there's nothing wrong about that as long as you trust each other and willing to step up to another level. A level as "lovers". It's never wrong to love a person especially if he/she knows you very well. BUT, there are still times that falling to your own bestfriend is not a good idea. Wanna know why?

Here are the options that can make you realize that falling to your best bud is wrong.

1. COMMITMENT - If your bestfriend has a commitment with another person, maybe its better to make friends with that person so you won't be the cause of their break up.

2. MISUNDERSTANDING - you always had that feeling, a feeling of misunderstanding. If he/she is also in love with me and you as a person is getting blind because of what is happening.

3. TREAT - you treat him/her as your lover. you act like there is something between you two even though there is not.

Here are the options that can make you realize that falling to your best bud is better.

1. KNOWS YOU WELL - your best bud knows you very well than anyone else.

2. TRUST - he/she trust you as his/her own life depends on you.

3. RESIST - he/she can't resist you even at times where he/she is very busy.

4. COMFORTABLE - you and your bestfriend is more comfortable with each other because you know each other very well.

5. HONESTY - you always know if whether he/she is lying to you. You always caught him in the act.

6. HAPPINESS - as a long time bestfriend, isn't it a wonderful feeling to make your status as a bestfriend step up to another level?

Song to Pamper: "Lovers and Friends" by Usher feat Lil´Jon, Ludacris, Pitbull

"Ang hinanaing ng isang BABAE"

2009-01-26T04:47:00.001-08:00

Ano nga ba ang hinanaing ng isang BABAE?

Kapag ngumiti ka na ng konti,

nag-ayos ng konti pagkakamalan ka nang malandi.
Hindi pangseryosohang relasyon.

Marinig lang nila na malakas kang mag-salita,
palengkera ka na.
T.O. kagad sa kanila iyon.

Mahilig silang tumingin sa mga babaeng sexy manamit,
kulang nalang makita na kaluluwa.
Pero kapag babaeng seryosohin at gustong ligawan
dapat disente,
dapat mala-anghel ang mukha,
dapat mukhang inosente.
Tapos kami pa raw ang mahilig mamili?
Parang baliktad yata?

Ok, ayan nanliligaw na si lalake.

Dapat pakipot ka para suyuin ka, para habulin ka pa lalo.
Kapag hindi ka naman nagpakipot.. "easy to get" naman ang tingin sa iyo.
Hindi ka na seseryosohin.
Teka! Sino bang may sabing magpaalila kayo,
di naman namin hawak ang buhay niyo.

Natural lang na magtiis kayo, may gusto kayo sa amin eh.
Kapag nakuha niyo na iyon wala na lahat ng mga paghihirap niyo,
babaliktad na ang sitwasyon kami naman ang mamromroblema.
Para lang kayong may gustong bilhin na bagay.
Upang mabili ito kailangan munang magsakripisyo, magtipid, magtiis.
Pag nabili na at mapagsawaan wala na, balewala na. Diyan ka na sa tabi-tabi.

"Tawagan nalang kita pag trip ko o kaya'y pag may gusto akong ipagawa sa iyo"

Ano pa ba? E di sinagot mo na diba. Utang na loob pa natin yun.
Dahil naghirap daw sila sa panliligaw dapat masuklian natin iyon ng higit pa.
Sa umpisa kailangan malambing ka, maayos at laging magsisilbi sa kanya.
Ayaw daw nilang humawak ng relasyon, pero kapag ikaw naman ang nagmando,
aba! masasakal naman.

Sasabihin pa sa iyo:
"demanding ka."

HAHA :))

Meron ka pang maririnig na:
"I think we need space.",

..........at kung anu-ano pang ek-ek.

Sino rin may sabing di dapat kami magpakabait,
maging devoted at faithful?

Kapag kami ang sumaway niyang mga iyan, iba na ang tingin sa amin.
Malandi na kami, haliparot, pakawala, makikay at kung anu-ano pang mga bansag ang itatawag sa amin.

Kapag kayo gumawa noon, ok lang.
Lalake kayo eh, macho kayo pag ginawa niyo yon.
Kaya kami, walang magawa. Magpapakaburo at magpapakamadre nalang.

Kapag nagloko na kayo ano pa bang magagawa namin?
Eh di iiyak nalang. Wala namang ibang magagawa eh.

Tungkol naman sa tinatawag niyong pagdedemand namin.

Hindi kami nagdedemand! Karapatan lang namin iyon.
Karapatan namin na lambingin niyo kami, icheck at ipakita sa amin na mahal niyo kami.
Ha. Ha. Ha. :))

Hindi rin ibig sabihin na mas sincere kayo sa amin.

Seryoso rin naman kami ah. At ang maturity wala yan sa edad.
Mas maaga nga kaming magmature sa inyo.
Ang isang 19 year old na lalake eh, isip 15 pa yun. It follows iyan sa lahat ng age group.
Mas mataas pa kung minsan ang pagbawas ng level of maturity.
Kayo na ang mag-math!

Pati yung pag-iyak namin pinupuntirya niyo.

Kesyo drama daw. Diba kapag umiyak ka nagbuhos ka ng emosyon diyan.
Ano tingin niyo sa amin mga artista?!

Alam niyo iyon? Yun bang kulang nalang ay lumuha ka na ng dugo,
pero hindi ka pa rin papansinin.
Sasabihan ka pang tigilan na ang pagdradrama.
Hindi nila kami maiintindihan kapag nagseselos kami.

Bakit naman kami magseselos kung wala kaming nakikita?
Mas iba kaming magmahal. Mas masarap..

Kapag natapos na ang lambingan,
eh di siyempre iwanan blues na.
Kami pa raw ang nagsawa, kami pa raw ang nagtritrip lang.
Sino ba ang lumalayas kapag may nakita nang bago,
sino ba ang mayabang,
sino ba ang nagmamalaki?
Kami ba? Kami ang walang choice...

Kasi ang babae pag sinabing "break na tayo.."
Lambingin lang iyan ng konti balikan blues na iyan.
Kapag ang lalake ang umayaw, pucha, bahala ka diyan.
Kahit mag-tambling ka pa sa harap niya. Wa-epek.
Umiyak ka ng bato.Wa-epek.
Tsk, tsk, tsk. Tapos sila pa raw ang kawawa?

Post-break up.

Mahal pa ng babae si lalaki.
Sasamantalahin ni lalaki. Magpapagawa ng kung anu-ano.

Naaalala ka lang kapag may kailangan sa iyo.

Kapag pumangit ka after the break up, magpapasalamat sila na iniwan ka nila.
Kapag gumanda ka naman, ipagkakalat nila sa buong sangkatauhan na naging girlfriend ka niya.
Sala sa init sala sa lamig talaga.

Ano ba namang buhay to?

Ang hirap ding maging babae ano. Kala nila laging sila nalang.

Lagi rin kaming naiiwan sa ere.
P***NGI*A SAKLAP DIBA?

So true...

Source: Maxine from Multiply

-NO SONG TO PAMPER IN TAGALOG ENTRIES-

"Ang hinanaing ng isang LALAKI"

2009-01-26T04:47:00.000-08:00

Ano nga ba ang mga hinanaing ng isang LALAKI?

*grabe. usapang lalake*
*sindi ng yosi*
*hithit*
*buga*

Musta na, pare?
Ako, okay lang.
Eto. Nagmumuni-muni. Nag-iisip.
Minsan talaga may mga bagay na hindi ko maintindihan.
Ewan ko ba.

*hinga ng malalim*

Bakit ba ganun pare,ilang beses ko na pinag-aralan pero lagi na lang lumalabas na parang kahit ‘sang anggulo mo tingnan,
hindi nagiging patas para sa mga lalake ang ilang bagay pagdating sa pagmamahal.

*tingin sa stars*

Minsan naiisip ko, alam kaya ng mga babae ang hirap ng lalake
na gumawa ng first move para magtapat ng pagmamahal?
E yung hirap na dinadaanan sa panliligaw at pagsuyo sa mahal nya?
Ang feeling ng masaktan pag nabasted?
Malamang-lamang siguro, hindi ano.
Wala naman yata silang alam sa mga paghihirap naten e.

Ang alam lang ata nila e
mamili, manakit, at magsaya.
Tingin mo?

*tingin sa malayo*

Lagi naman ganun. Una pa lang, lalake na ang naghihirap.
Hassle saten ang panliligaw pero bago pa yun,
kung ano pang diskarte ang gagawin naten
para masabi naten sa kanila na mahal natin sila.
Alam kaya nila yun? Mahirap magsabi na mahal mo na yung babae, diba?
Tapos liligawan pa naten.

Patutunayan na mahal nga sila.

Susuyuin..

to-the-max.

Maghahatid sa bahay, tutulungan,
sasabayan, palalamunin, pagtyatyagaan,
lahat na.

Kulang na lang e pagsilbihan mo nang
walang sahod. (Hahaha!)

At ano ang kapalit? Well, depende sa trip nila. Oo tol, sa trip lang nila.
Wala silang pake kesehodang mahal natin talaga sila.

Basta ang alam nila, pag di nila tayo trip,
isang malaking HINDE ang makukuha
naten,

kahit umiyak pa tayo ng dugo o lumuhod sa mga asing buu-buo.
Para lang silang namimili ng damit na di man lang sinusukat bago ayawan.
Kaya kahit mahal na mahal na mahal na mahal natin, sorry tayo.
Hindi nila alam kung mahal mo sila.
Kailangan mong maabot ang kanilang mga standards o uuwi ka lang na bad trip, iiling-iling, at minsan, luhaan.

Wala tayong magagawa, marami silang alibi.

“Hindi pa ‘ko ready eh..”,
“Sorry pero I think we should just be friends..”,
“Ha? Uhhmm.. nagpapatawa ka ba? Hahahaha..”
“Better luck next time na lang muna, okay lang?”,
“Give me a decade. Pag-iisipan ko muna..”,
"Para lang kitang kapatid eh.. "

yaddah yaddah.

Isang malaking pagsasaklob ng langit at lupa ‘yon para saten.

*kuha ng bote ng beer*
*lagok*
*lunok*

At hindi lang ‘yon tol. Sa pre-relationship stage pa lang yon.
Pag sinagot na nila tayo, satin pa rin ang hassle.

Tayo daw ang mga lalake kaya..
tayo ang hahawak ng relasyon.
Tayo ang aayos kung may gulo;
tayo ang dapat magpapakabait;
tayo ang magtatyaga;
tayo ang magiging devoted at faithful;
tayo, tayo tayo.

Sila? Ummm… Teka, isipin ko.

Ayun.

Sila ang magsasabi kung anong oras kayo dapat magmeet;
sila ang magtetext ng mga mushy at kabalbalang texts;
sila ang magdedemand sayo ng kung anu-ano;
sila ang magbabawal;
sila ang magsasabi kung kelan ka dapat mag-shave,
kung kelan ka pwedeng tumawag sa bahay nila,
kung kelan sila di dapat bad tripin dahil meron sila,
at kung kelan ka korni.

Ewan. Ganun ata talaga.

*kuha ng bote ng beer*
*lagok*
*lunok*

Hindi pa yun tapos pare, dahil dapat tayo ang bahala kung ano ang magiging takbo ng relasyon.

Pag maganda, edi okay.
Pag may problema, kasalanan naten.
Haay buhay. Minsan talaga kung tutuusin sakit sila ng ulo.
Kaya lang mahal naten kaya di na natin iniintindi yun.

*hinga ng malalim*

Pero alam mo tol, feeling ko mas sincere pa tayo magmahal sa kanila.
Alam mo yun, iba tayo magmahal e.
Hindi lang parang laru-laro lang. Seryoso.
At kung magmahal man tayo, lubus-lubusan.

Mas mature?
Hindi yung parang pambata lang gaya nila na kesyo magseselos-selos, iiyak-iyak, iina-inarte, dadradrama, at kung anu-ano pa.
Hindi lang kababawan. Ka-mushyhan. Kababaihan. Iba tayo pag nagmahal.

*hinga ng malalim*
*tingin sa malayo ulit*

At ito pa ang pinakamasaklap.

*singhot*

Ang ending ng relasyon.
Sa mga panahong ‘to, either
sawa na sila, hindi na tayo trip,
may nahanap na silang better saten,
o kaya they need f*cking space and time muna.
Bad trip no? Wala na naman tayong choice. Sila ang masusunod.

At ano pa ang kasamang hassle don?
Syempre wasak na ang imahe naten.
Tayo ang lalabas na may kasalanan.
Na playboy. Na nagpapaiyak.

*iiling*

Tayo siyempre ang mga antagonist
at sila yung mga bidang inaapi at parang mga pusang iiyak-iyak.

Ang ending:
mag-ooffer sila ng “friendship” kuno matapos tayong pagsawaan,
lahat ng gifts naten nasa kanila,
sawi tayo sa pag-ibig, “player” na ang image naten,
at higit sa lahat,
mag-iisip kung papaano ipagpapatuloy ang buhay.
Maiiwan tayong tulala, mag-iisip kung saan nagkamali, mamomroblema sa pag-aadjust sa pagiging single, at di na naman makakatulog.

Haay buhay. Ang hirap maging lalake.
Lagi ka na lang naiiwan sa ere.
Ano? Hindi ka na nagsalita? In-love ka no?

Ako, kamusta? Eto.
Yoyosi-yosi. Bubuntong-buntong hininga. Titingin-tingin sa bituin. Mumuni-muni. Lalagok ng alak

Ang mga babae talaga, oo.

Grabe na to' ahahahaha! =D

Source: Maxine from Multiply

-NO SONG TO PAMPER IN TAGALOG ENTRIES-

Please...a second chance!

2009-01-23T05:14:00.000-08:00

Is it really hard to give a second chance to the one you loved before?

Here is a story about a 2 person who still love each other but can't give forgiveness for what they have done.

Boy: I loved this girl in my life. Give her anything she wants. Loved her with all my heart. Taking care of her anytime and always. For many months we've been together, we're happy and compatible with each other. Yet, she still finds another guy. we have this "third person" in our life. After knowing this, I easily broke up with her even if I don't want to. It hurts. I don't know what to do after that incident. Isn't she contented of having me? why does she have to find another one? and now she's asking for me to give her a second chance. What should I do?

Girl: My boyfriend and I broke up. i know its all my fault. I know I'm wrong. I still look up for a better one. but, I didn't mean it. I am contented of having him as the love of my life. But still, there is something deep within me that I couldn't understand. I still love him and I still want to give my last shot. I am still apologizing to him until now. I want him back. But how? If only he try to listen to me again. I'm stupid, I know.

Boy: Maybe I'm wrong too, because every time she says sorry. I don't listen, I was beginning to be a deaf person. Even though I still love her.

Girl: I'm really sorry for what I've done. Can you still please stay for our relationship?

Boy: What should I do? I still love her. I don't want to lose her.

Girl: I really mean for what I have done. I am really sorry.

"It hurts to know that the people who hurt you never realize the gravity of what they've done...
And when they apologize,
they don't even know what they're being sorry for"

Giving a second chance to a person once you loved before is not an easy thing to do. Especially, if he/she really did something wrong. But, if he/she really mean it. Try to understand and listen.

Song to Pamper: "Don't Wanna Try" by Frankie J.

Different reasons why having an affair is good or bad

2009-01-11T02:54:00.000-08:00

This is my first entry in my blog that is in TAGALOG language. Hope you all like it.

Bakit ang hirap magkaroon ng isang relationship?

Here are the reasons why having an affair is BAD:

1. LOAD ng LOAD - nakakaubos ng baon to ah'

2. REPORT - report ng report kung nasaan ka, ano ang ginagawa mo, sino kasama mo, at kung anu-ano pa. (hindi ako PULIS!)

3. STUDIES - nakakasira ng studies ang pakikipag relasyon.

4. TIME - nakukulangan ka ng oras para sa iba mong gagawin. like mag-aral, family, labas with friends.

5. NAKAKA-SAKAL - lahat limitado na. like pananamit mo, pagkain mo ng kung anu-ano, talking shit, pag-inom with friends, lahat na!

6. GIFTS - kailangan mo pang mag-ipon just to give gifts for monthsary, birthday, anniversary.

7. LIES - nagsisinungaling ka na sa parents mo para lang sa kaniya.

8. FIGHT/ARGUE - lagi kang may ka-away na tipong lahat ng taong makakasalubong mo ay gusto mo ng awayin din.

9. JEALOUSY - selos anyone? kahit ang mga friends mo ay pinag-seselosan din nya.

10. STRESS - nakaka-stress ang pagpupuyat, hindi kumain dahil sa bad mood ka sa away niyo, your day was awful because of him/her.

11. HURT/CRY - ayoko ng masaktan uli, ayoko ng umiyak tuwing gabi kaya natatakot na kong magmahal uli.=<

Here are the reasons why having an affair is GOOD:

1. SWEET MOMENTS - nothing can beat your sweet times together.

2. HUG - nothing can hug you like a teddy bear in his/her arms tightly, and it feels warm. sarap ng feeling!

3. KISS - kapag bad ang araw mo today, no one! or nobody! can beat up a sweet kiss from the one you love.

4. CARE - taking care of you always even in good or bad times.

5. I LOVE YOU - saying "I LOVE YOU" is one of the special and sweet words you can hear from a very special person.

---haiii! first tagalog entry ko to ha' walang kokontra!

FALLING in LOVE is so "damn" HARD!

-NO SONG TO PAMPER IN TAGALOG ENTRIES- "Sorry..."

OPTION is not a predictable reason

2009-01-08T08:46:00.000-08:00

Being an Option is not a definite or infinite reason to be a stubborn person.

But, why does it hurts?

Here is a story of one of my reader's.

Hello tricia, I am one of your readers and eventually I have this (I don't know if I should call it a "LOVE PROBLEM") problem. But, it totally hurt deep within me. Anyway, I am mark. Here is my story goes. There's this schoolmate of mine now at college, her name was jenny. She's kind, worthy, and jolly. Me and jenny we're friends until I fall in love with her. I started courting her, like any guy would do for the new girl in their life. And so month's passed by until I realize that jenny is still in touch with her past boyfriend "john". It's so sad and depressing. Because jenny once told me that "she is" also has a feelings with me. But why does she is in touch with that person? After all that things that john done to her. Jenny once confess to me that this "john" is just using her to make john's girlfriend jealous. So he broke up with john. Until now, I can't decide if whether I should give up or not. Because I love her so much with all my heart. But, every time that this "john" text her and need her. Jenny is always their and willing to leave me behind for that person who just used her. Help me. What will I do, Should I stop courting jenny or not? Am I just an option for john? and Why does it is not so easy to forget the past? -Mark

Tricia:

Hi mark! nice love story. even if it totally hurts deep within. right? but I think all you have to do first is to stop yourself courting jenny. Because even if you love and care for her, and enjoying your times together. You are just making a fool of yourself. A feeling of joy and laughter outside but deep within your heart you are just hurting yourself. Stop! and moved on. Find someone else who would not used you as an "option" and find someone who is HONEST with everything that she is doing time after time. Thank you mark for sharing your story. keep reading.

Song to Pamper: "With Him" by Babyface

Ways of staying hold together

2008-12-27T04:07:00.000-08:00

What are the ways of staying hold together each other?

1. COMMUNICATION - is the articulation of sending a message through different media whether it be verbal or nonverbal, so long as a being transmits a thought provoking idea, gesture, action, etc.

2. TRUST - Letting others know your feelings, emotions and reactions, and having the confidence in them to respect you and to not take advantage of you. And placing confidence in others so that they will be supportive and reinforcing of you, even if you let down your "strong'' mask and show your weaknesses.

3. PATIENCE - "serves as a protection against wrongs as clothes do against cold. For if you put on more clothes as the cold increases, it will have no power to hurt you. So in like manner you must grow in patience when you meet with great wrongs, and they will then be powerless to vex your mind." -Leonardo da Vinci

4. TIME - "Time is Gold" Don't waste time, meet with each other.

5. LOYALTY - is faithfulness or a devotion to a person or cause. Don't do bad things when he/she is not by your side.

Song to Pamper: "Together" by Ne-Yo

Crying is a definite feeling

2008-12-27T03:40:00.000-08:00

Crying is a definite feeling.

"Unexplainable but full of hatred"

"Unacceptable but filled with joy"

But do you know what is the real reason why does crying is such a way good feeling?

"it is when you're emotion in your heart is kept on accumulating and you feel like your exploding like a bomb and instead of smiling, you'll just ended up crying."

Song to Pamper: "Tears" by Marques Houston

7 months of LOVE & PLAY

2008-12-22T03:10:00.000-08:00

"This girl is so beautiful. Easy to adore with her long black straight shiny healthy hair, cute brownish eyes, chiseled nose, sparkling and glossy kissable lips, sweet one of a kind smile, with a natural skin tone, and a skin that is deeply soft. Maybe one look at her can melt your heart quickly. So beautiful like an angel here in earth. But there's one thing I can't forget about this young, beautiful girl. She is a player. She played with my heart for 7 months. It hurts so deeply that my heart break into a million pieces. I have loved her with all my heart. I adore & praise her for 7 months. For that 7 months, she used me to make her lover jealous. I was blind, totally blind to see for myself of what she is doing behind my back. She use and play me. But thanks for that instance moment with her. Because I am wiser now for choosing the right girl to love. Just an implicit advice for those who has an affair right now. "trust is the most important thing" when you are on a relationship. Don't be fool by a physical appearance only, it's more important when you truly and deeply know that person." -Anonymous

A story of one of my readers. He/She sent it to me and gradually told me that I can post it in my blog. A story of love, play, unfaith, and respect. Although it is hard to move on in this kind of incident affair, don't take a revenge on that person. All you have to do is find someone who is way better than that person.

You too can share your own love story. Just send it to my e-mail address at cia16mae@yahoo.com

Song to Pamper: "I Should Have Cheated" by Keyshia Cole

Next Attraction

2008-12-13T19:45:00.000-08:00

For my next blog entry. Watch out!

-"OPTION is not a predictable reason"

-"7 months of LOVE & PLAY"

-"How does Mr. Ideal and Ms. Moncado change? part 2"

-"Crying is a definite feeling"

-"Ways of staying hold together"

Picky or Not Picky?

2008-11-30T06:25:00.000-08:00

"Being single is not about having no choice. It's a result of making intelligent choices. Because intelligent people decide based on reason, not just in emotion"

Questions that surrounds a hideous mind of a picky person:
Afraid to let go?
Afraid to fall?
Afraid to get hurt?
Afraid of losing someone?
Are you really serious in our relationship?
Do you still love me?

But sometimes a person cannot blame himself. Yet,
"Life is too short to be a picky person. Having an affair is not a tolerate decision."

Song to Pamper: "I wanna be loved" by Eric Benet

How does Mr. Ideal & Ms. Moncado change?

2008-11-30T05:41:00.000-08:00

Ms. Moncado was just an adult, a person with good personality and sense of humor. A student with a straight forward inferiority. has many friends and especially a sweet and caring daughter. Yet there is one thing that Ms. Moncado never had in her entire life. Having an affair with somebody. At their subdivision, there was a guy who may we call Mr. Ideal. Mr. Ideal is just Ms. Moncado's age and they study at the same university. But, Mr. Ideal has a lot of inquiry in his life. Like drinking and smoking. Yet there is one thing that Mr. Ideal never had in his entire life. Having an affair with somebody. One day morning, Ms. Moncado went on the waiting area for the school bus on the way to the school. Then Mr. Ideal came with a stick of cigarette on his hands and said "Hi miss! can I sit here?" Ms. Moncado just stare at him. He then sit beside her, inhale his cigar and boom a smoke at her way. Ms. Moncado stand, covering her face with her hanky and said "can't you see I'm here?". "Oh! I am very sorry miss! I thought you were a chair, cause you're not speaking" said Mr. Ideal. The school bus came. Ms. Moncado walks toward the bus irritated and angry while Mr. Ideal still busy inhaling his cigar.

TO BE CONTINUED.

Song to Pamper: "Fall for you" by Shanice Wilson

Sometimes, choosing someone isn't enough

2008-11-07T06:38:00.000-08:00

Hi! I'm Rob. I like to share my story with you. I'm in-love with this girl since our childhood years, we used to plan that we should be together in the rest of our lives. As we grow old and have our own ways of living. I courted her with all my heart and even dedicate my life for her. But, she always refuse to accept my heart. She usually say's "I'm not ready", ready for what? to accept my heart, to fall in-love, to accept the consequences. I finally gave up. My friends told me that I should find someone who can trust and love me. As day pass by, someone told her that I have a new lover. She quickly met up with me and ask me why did I leave her. She even told me that she love me ever since, but she's just afraid to tell the truth. I said to her "When I'm always here for you, to take care and love you. You just reject me like a trash. But, this time that I had a girlfriend, you came back and even told me that you love me. This is not just a game that you will play for a minute then let go after you finished it. I'm with a lovely girl right now. A girl who can exchange my love that I have given to her. I cannot accept you. I'm sorry" She suddenly looked at me straight in my eyes, then a teardrop appears and she quickly run away from me. I was stunned, hurt, and guilty. Who should I choose? the past who always hurt me but still brings joy and happiness in my life or the future that can accept and love me yet I'm still not happy.

Song to pamper: "Run to the arms of the one who loves you" by Xscape

Steps to Move-on

2008-11-03T08:32:00.000-08:00

1. Travel - go to different places, search other people, bond with your family and friends, seeing other faces, and letting go of painful memories.

2. Drink Alcoholic Beverages - just for one night, drink until you drop. Then tomorrow morning when you wake up. go in front of a mirror and say "this is the new me!"

3. Talk with a Close Friend - they help a lot and they can be your hidden energy.

4. Make yourself Beautiful - go to a salon or spa, buy new clothes, go to a gym, etc. and make yourself a new you.

5. Trash all your Memories - put away all the stuff he/she has given to you. burn them.

6. Find a New One - searching for a new one is not wrong, as long as that person is way better than your past.

Song to Pamper: "I Won't Cry" by Profyle

Searching for each other

2008-11-03T08:04:00.000-08:00

Boy: There she is, starring at me like an Angel. Like I'm the only person around her.

Girl: Looking at him makes my heart beat so loud. Turning my world upside down.

Boy: If I can only stop this moment.

Girl: If I can only freeze the time, and I would spent it with you forever.

Boy: But, how can she knew a hideous person like me?

Girl: What am I thinking? a common girl like me is no match for him.

Boy: Should I ask her name? Would I talk her?

Girl: Please! Please! Please! Greet me this time.

Boy: Maybe a smile would do? But...

Girl: There he is, passing by me again.

Boy: Maybe next time will do.

-Would there be a chance?, Can two hearts find each other?, & Are they really meant forever?

Song to Pamper: "Where are You?" by Natalie feat. Justin Roman

Random acts of Love

2008-10-22T18:36:00.000-07:00

What are the simple ways to express your feelings to your loved ones?

1. KISS - is the touching of one person's lips to another place, which is used as an expression of affection, respect, greeting, farewell, good luck, romantic affection or sexual desire.

2. HUG - is a form of physical intimacy that generally involves closing or holding thearms around another person or group of persons. The hug is one of the most common human signs of love and affection, along with kissing. Sometimes, hugs are a romantic exchange. A hug may also be exchanged as a sign of support and comfort. A hug can be a demonstration of affection and emotional warmth, sometimes arising out of joy or happiness at meeting someone.

3. HAND HOLDING - Two or more people voluntarily hold hands for a reason like handshake, to express friendship or love, to guide, to dance, to arm wrestle, etc.

4. SIMPLE WORDS - Saying simple words like "I LOVE YOU, I MISS YOU, YOU'RE MY ANGEL, I WANT TO BE WITH YOU, etc."

Source: wikipedia.org

Song to pamper: "The Sweetest Love" by Robin Thicke

Does a man really love a woman endlessly?

2008-10-22T06:09:00.000-07:00

"I am no one special, just a common man with common thoughts. I've lived a common life, there are no monuments dedicated to me and my name will soon be forgotten. But, in one respect I've succeeded as gloriously as anyone who ever lived. I've loved another with all my heart and soul and for that has always been enough" -Noah, The Notebook

This actually prove that a man can really love a woman endlessly. Like in the movie "The Notebook" Noah is always there for Allie, even if she has another man and her parents doesn't want Noah for her. Noah waited and still hoping for Allie to come back. At the end of this movie they both died in a bed still hugging and caring for each other. Watching this movie can make your heart melt and can make you cry so deeply. Having this kind of experience could make you realize that love is a very different kind of feeling.

Song to pamper: "Endlessly" by B4-4

the last person to love

2008-10-21T21:20:00.000-07:00

Did you know when the last person you're about to love is by your side? how to know?
here's how:

-it is about when your heart stops beating. its like when you stumble a person and stare to his/her face, look that person straight to his/her eyes and suddenly your heart stops beating! you feel like you're running so fast and didn't know where to go, you like to escape from that very moment but you felt something special with the person right in front of you.

-it is about when you call him/her names. (like honey, baby, love, darling, sweetheart, etc.) because for you he/she is the right one even names are not important.

-it is about when you miss him/her all the time, that you spend every minute thinking of him/her. you call him/her every time even if you are very disturbing.

-it is about when you realize that you're willing to sacrifice all. sacrificing you're own life, family, career, friends, personality, etc. for that person.

-it is about when you see this person smile, all your worries would go away. its like on a busy day from work, school, etc. that person walks toward you and gave you his/her sweetest smile then you look at him/her thinking that if you could only stop the time and be with that person.

-it is about when you feel pain and suddenly he/she heals it. its like after going from a dentist he/she pick you up then he/she goes to the nearest grocery store and bought you some ice cream. from having a stubborn face turned up to a happy face and you thought of how lucky you are for having someone like him/her.

-it is about when he ask you to be his last person to love. being an engage couple can prove to the world that you two are respecting and caring for each other.

-it is about when you realize that this person is willing to protect you and love you all the time. it is like when a sudden accident happen to you, he/she would come and rescue you even if his life is in exchanged.

Song to pamper: "The last time" by Eric Benet